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jealous yes, because he thought you would be there, maybe as a booty call or back up. THAT SUCKS. tell him flat out you refuse to be a back up and you are in a good relationship. Tell him its not fair that he did that to you. You ever heard the saying,...
why dont the three of you all sit down and talk. LIKE A CONFRONTATION to settle it once and for all. That way, if he is hiding anything from you she may blurt it out, even if the truth does hurt. You and your bf can sit down with her and tell her you B...
do benchpress n stufft o work out your chest muscles, that should perk em up. You can also just get into alot of excersing so you have an all round tight body.
here we go! My boyfriend does this to me, and I go absolutely over the edge. Well, work her up first. Kissing rubbing. Kiss her neck, her breasts, her nipples, her wrists, her stomach. Go back up. Just tease her a bit. slowly take off her pants. NOT H...
Wait until he breaks up with his gf, if he does. I had a friend whose ex said he would, he didnt. and no she didnt end up gettin the other guy back.
im not quite sure what your saying bud. Im very confused..
Just come right out. Say: Hey I have had something on my mind for a while. Can i talk to you about it?' when he gives the go ahed say: 'well im not sure how you feel about us being together again, but I want to give it another chance. What do you think...
Just start ignoring them and don't hang out with them. they will get the hint. If they call and ask, just say you are not interested and you need to be alone. You sound guilty, but why would you be stupid enough to cheat on your boyfriend. My question ...
how old are you?
Turn on some nice music, whatever you like that you will comfy dancing to. Now make sure u wear really cute underwear and a bra. As your dancing do some of what the above says. Go in, rub against him with your body on his body parts, then pull away. da...
safe sex is wearing a condom or using any other type of birth control with a condom, like The Pill& the condom.
well if you had sex just tke a home test.
Whats wrong with oral sex, or 'digital penetration'. where digital means fingers.....
bigandripped is wrong. men can wait for as long as you want them. If he doesnt want to he isnt worth it. obviously my. bigandripped ( which i doubt he is) is just a horny chauvinist pig.
other way around hunny! GIRLS LIKE CIRCUMSIZED BOYS! actually I love it. I think uncircumsized boys can be dirty because sweat and stuff gets trapped in there. Trust me.. they will know if its in there hunny, you have pretty good size on yah! >>>G...
>> yah um. many many many people have died by this feeling They get addicted to the feeling of blacking out on purpose to get this feeling. About 90% end up dead bc they get too carried away. Do not participate in the pass out game.
Unless you have good reason to accuse him don't. There seems to be alot of trust issues you need to work through with your boyfriend, try to dig down to see where this is all coming from. Seems to me you have some relationship insecurities. yes he cou...
SHe is insecure because she has reached the age where she questions anything. You have got to be there constantly, unconditionally, through good AND bad. You've got to show her that no matter hwat you love her. Trust me, I've been the child in this sit...
IF ITS IS TRUE LOVE HE SHOULD TRUST YOU NO MATTER WHAT! Trust is the cement foundation of ANY relationship. Without it will all come falling down.
If you feel # 2 is the one, why wait? you are just leading #1 on. The answer to your question: you are using this guy for fun, its all you want. She was right, its lust not love. GO for TRUE LOVE ALL THE WAYY!!! good luck.
You are now having second thoughts. This is not at all a good situation to be in, you are going to have to live with this mother in law for the rest of your life if you stay with him. If you are not enjoying this then whats the point? Its life, you've...
NO ! NO ! NO! RULE number one is to never ever ever let a guy between you and your friend, you could risk losing your best friend. 'Friends are FOREVER, BOYS are WHATEVER'. You can be honest with her, and tell her what you think, that is if you wan...
STEP ONE>>> Put everything that reminds you of him in a box. STEP TWO>>> BURN IT! because you got to forget him. HE WANTSS you to want him . HE is just lovin allt he attention you are giving him. STEP THREE>>> adopt a who cares attitude and get ...
READ ALL OF WHAT MONKEYFLIP SAID! ITS TRUE>! EVEN PRINT IT OFF AND SAVE IT!!!
monkey flip you are soo right! so many men stop too soon, and we are just beginning to enjoy our selves. It takes longer than you think> trust me. she will let you know when you can come up> and if you are doin good, that may be like.. NEVER! dont...
ALL HE WANTS IS S-E-X! ! ! If he doesn't respect you now he never will! get out while you can sweetheart, that is what your heart is truly trying to tell you, you just don't know it! -- he SOUNDS like a total PERVERT! HE IS JUST GOING TO USE YOU! ...
hmm SOUNDS LIKE he is just in it for the sexual side of it all. i mean face it!!! if he really truly loved you he wouldnt be in a relationship with another girl. bin there done that, STUPID idea. he is still with her, and you are just a back up in cas...
OKAY It doesnt matter! Just live you life because it is nothing to be OBSESSED about. When the time comes it will happen with the right person, trust me, you will regret it if you just kiss some guy you don't know or make out with someone while youre...
OMG! I cannot believe he hit. get out now, while you can. I dont care if you think you love him. He obviously doesnt love you enough to consider ur emotions. All he wants is sex. He could even rape you. tal to your parents or a good friends parents. GE...
I feel you girl. Im 15 almost 16 years old. Ive bin with my boyfriend for 6 months, and i love him to death. He tells me he loves me about twice as much as i say it to him. I have given him many blowjobs, and he just loves them. go to cosmopolitan.co...
PS Girls love tongue
PS. Girls 3 tongue! lotsa tongue!
brad baby. Oral sex can be amazing, just work your way down to it. Do a little warm up, make out, feel around. Nibble on her nipples. Kiss her stomach. pull off her pants. rub her with your hand a bit. just a bit. kiss her thighs. pull of her un...
This boy sounds like all he wants to do is do shit with you. AND YOURE ONLY 13!! whoa! go slow, if you dont feel comfortable even thinking about it don't worry yourself about it. You are in control. A boy ain't worth your time if he aint gonn wait for ...
Guys definitely like it when a girl swallows, but it really doesnt matter. You can give him head then when he starts to explode take your mouth off and keep jerking, dont forget to clean himoff. And in reply to the girl who said its disrespectful. um i...
WHO cares about your stomach, dont worry about it babe. Just ask him if he has bin with anyone recently, better if he is a virgin, less of a risk of disease. By the way. If the guy is good at eating you out or fingering you, then it feels good. Having...
okay um. first of all, you shouldn't be doing that sort of stuff period. Even thinking about haveing sex at only the age of thirteen? NO WAY! You are way too young, and not mature enough to handle the consequences. If you want to give him blow jobs and...
okay.. one question.. is it 7 inches hard or soft? Either way though, 7inches hard, thats pretty damn good boy, there was definitely something wrong with your ex hunny.