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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
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gymgirl09's Advice
so I should just keep trying to put it in, and eventually it'll go?? or am I doing something wrong?
yeah im a virgin and I know its normal to hurt I guess but how long will it take to get used to?? I can even get it in! I've been trying for hourrss
thanks guys :) see but the thing is we have SO much in common...itd be so easy to start a conversation but im just too freaking shy. and we are so similar, thats what everyone says. so I dunno
archuleta :)
aw thanks! yeah and the guy I have a crush on is really quiet too...so for me it's so hard to talk to him, and I get really jealous because my outgoing friends can just blab away with him...so it SUCKS being shy-moral of my story haha but hopefully I c...
thanks man. haha it is so difficult for us shy ones :[
im way too scared!!! haha, is there any way I could do it like indirectly? its just so awkward...
OMG um I have the exact same problem. I try to tell myself it's just an ordinary guy around the one I like, but I get so nervous - ugh its terrible. I need help too!
I thought danny was really good and shouldn't have been voted off..he added personality to the show! but yeah I really love david archuleta. suchh a cutie!! :)
Yeah, we both do track so I see him like everyday after school. We've had some awkward eye contacts and stuff, and I feel like it would be so awkward talking to him I can't even explain haha. Another thing is what if I started by talking to him on face...