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OK everybody seems to miss something and that is why can't he see her again ?? ... Listen up he's a guy and from what I've read not a very mature guy but still a guy. Him not wanting to see you can be a couple of reasons, it could be he met someon...
Shame sweetheart that's very tough for someone to go threw something like that, she might just be strong for her little sister but it's gonna hit her hard REAL hard and she gonna need a friend, get your tissues ready girl, it's gonna be rough, as for m...
it's always a very differant situation when it comes to ex's as there is history behind the 2 of you, and all though you are ex's, not every one breaks up for the same reason...sometimes you just need some time apart to realize that you actually do lov...
I agree with beenloved....it is a strong word and you shouldn't really use it unless you know what love is...if he's your first boyfriend or you his first girlfriend then it's gonna take a while fo you to realize what love is especially guys....they ta...
Yeah I'd have to agree with lolliepop do not tell your boy friend and buy yourself a dildo for the meantime it's mure natural than a dog, yeah ;)
OK in this sense woman are like elephants they never forget, but you didn;t intend for it to happen but it still did..you 2 do still have feelings for eachother but you're playing on the outskirts of the field. The chemistry is still there and I wo...
OK It might have been fun but you must understand you've basically givin your BF permission to kiss another woman.... I know from past ecperiences how this could turn out.. A. You guys could have a "partner" to fool around with every now and then b...
Sounds like you guys are spending alot of time together and he's taken you for granted which is a normal things young guys do that have not learned there leason in life......you gonna have to show him just how much you mean to him girl....time to take ...
Well if he wants to kiss you tell him to get some mints or some gum....make it an effort for him to smoke and if he really loves you he would make a point of trying not to smoke before he sees you... But if you already made sure that he knows then y...
OK Girl you need to take a few deep breaths and relax......after that you need to decide. You say you love you New BF just as much but yet you'll leave him and go for your ex...who do you love more...??? Cause it looks like it's your ex if your willing...
What angel said is mostley true BUT..... a thing that woman must realize is most Men don't realize what they have untill they've lost it...and it's true he does miss you and if he keeps on writing you letters and telling you he misses you it means he s...
Sorry girl it must be hard on you......the thing is they spen 13 years together and have a son although there marriage was a failure the've spent allot of memories together and were eachothers best friends for that long....if you start thinking that he...
it's very hard to work the lower part of your abs as i've been doing it the past 2 months in gym but the best excercises are mainly cardio....jogging, rowing , cycling it burns complete body fat and i've already lost a size in my jeans from 32 to 30......
Everybody kinda has the right idea it's rough and feels like you can't breath sometimes and just as it feels everything is better you remember why your so alone again......unfortunatley these are the things you're gonna have to live with and the more y...
OK then don't be yourself...;) It's not something that everyone has and you don't just get it over night, it takes character and a good sense of humour combined with wit. you can't just be the most popular girl...think about it.
Well first of all Hitting a woman is the lowest form of male ego.....secondley actions speak louder than words...go to therapy/anger managment show your wife that you are willing to change and get your anger under control as you've hit her before and a...
Some girls like the taste but most don't guys don't think any different if you spit or swallow they just really enjoy getting head and don't really care what happens to there cum. If you want to swallow to check it out then swallow if not then spit, bu...
Hey girl sorry to hear about your loss I know the feeling.... (Broke up after 3 years in Jan) No one can really tell you what to do and even though you speak to people about your issues they can give advice but no one knows him like you do so take...
and thats what people call a player my girl so sorry, he's playing you into his palm everytime and if he probabley get's to sleep with you he'll break it up afterwards as he got what he wanted tell him to "Have a nice day" and break it off.... Sorry...
hey hunnybunny ;) ( I always liked that name ) oK from a guys point of view..... I have a friend that's similar to you in the sense that we always flirt and hang out together but there are 2 types of flirts. One : the test flirt where you consta...
Why did you break up ? and how long were you guys dating for ?
It's never easy to get over a loved one cheating on you, it hurts alot and most of the time it's all you can think about especially when you stick around your loved one after something like that. If you find yourself not being able to forgive or mak...
Bud if she likes you then go for it, you can't get better experience from a younger chic. You'll cath on everything very quickley, it's easier than riding a bike. ;)
I know it's tough and hurts never ending, you have a gaping hole in your chest and it doesn't want to go away....in the morning when you wake up until the evening you go to bed all you think about is your loved one and how you miss them. You need to...
How long have you guys been going out .... ? & How long you been seperated ... ?
Shame sorry girl I know it's rough what you're going threw and it's not easy to watch someone you love and care for so much not to be with you, it's a chest pain that doesn't want to go away. You have to break contact with him and having sex afterwa...
it sounds like you already know what to do just go out there nad lay it on the table he clearly likes you and the only reason he mentioned this other girl is to see you reaction. Enough playing around let him knoe that you like him to and would like...
So sorry to hear Angela I would love to give you my input but I'll leave this for some one that has more experience in this situation. Just know that i'll be here for your support and as always a person to talk to. Sean
Wow first of all so sorry what happend....;( It's very, very hard to build up trust again I know cause I went threw the same thing with my ex and spoke to alot of Parents and Counseller's about this and they all gave me the same answer which might n...
This is a trickey one on the one hand your current GF isn't expecting anything this weekend so if you do suprise her then you will make her the happiest girl alive, on the other hand it's partying with your friends and ex.... So you got 2 card to pl...
Ok bud I know exactley what your going threw as I recently broke up with my girlfriend after 3 and half years, also over christmas...these holiday's really sucked ;) Anyway this is what I did and what i've been going threw, I know you miss her and w...
She might not be saying anything now cause as you said your both shy people....Read between the lines....BODY LANGUGE since you told her she's next to you which means she does like you when you talk to her does she fidget alot tapping her feet, playing...
OK first of all take a Deep Breath and relax when you read this.... as hard as it is you need to let it go and you must definently not talk to Chris for atleast a month and I KNOW IT'S HARD im going threw the same thing I broke up with My first LOV...
he'll phone he's probabley trying to work his girlfriend out but not by A. hurting her feelings B. Giving her ammo (you 2 kissing) Just wait till the end of the week.
Cause you're a premature ejaculator....simple as that. When you start having sex you'll still ejaculate premature but the more sex you have the longer you'll be able to control it.
Insecurity's is one of the worst thing's can can break a relationship and it did mine....I tried everything to make her feel as secure as possible but nothing worked and in the end it broke us after 3½ years. Only after you seperate from your loved on...
It bothers you that he slept with this other girl cause you were kinda hoping that it was going to be the first for both of you, he did just use her for sex and there's no real emotion involved. But the fact that he did it bothers you the most...... ...
Unlike Girl's who get very concerned if they don't talk to there BF everyday guys can go without talking to them for atleast 3 days, my girlfriend and I use to fight about these things all the time and she couldn't understand why. it's just the way ...
How old are you first of and why ask all these questions ?
She's ruined your life enough, if you want give it a try again but I suggest a major break before you guys should try and get together. Visit your son as arranged but go and step outside the box, once your outside take a look at everything and then dec...
Cause of his previous relationship he has got serious trust issues, you guys should maybe consider couple therapy or something drastic must happen in your relationship otherwise im sorry to say it's doomed.
Well my boy you'll never now untill you open up...if you don't then you'll always wonder "What if" so get some balls and let her now how you feel and how you would love to care for her... Let me know
Just because he kissed you doesn't mean he's not the same person all it means is that he really cares for you and he felt like it was a moment for him cause you were there for his time of need. Don't let it change your relationship just know that there...
Take the time apart and see what happens, if he really loves you he will notice that not hearing from you is making him unhappy. The fact that you guys have been going out so long on a long distance relationship is impressive enough and has to mean ...
You guys are at the point in a relationship were you just argue and argue for any bullshit. I went threw it my friends went threw it everybody I know went threw it at a year. Relationships are funny they always start off peachy fucking keen, everybody ...
I sorta went threw the same thing with this girl I had a crush on, and went for it but ended up with my best friend. It took a while to adjust to it and I couldn't be in the same room as them. Unfortunatley there's nothing much you can do now and this ...
Don't be stupid girl if what you look like (on a average day)what your photo looks like, then you're a natural good looking girl ;) and i'm not just saying it to make you feel better if I was 16 I would be hitting on you ...8)
Personally I like shave, what my girl friend use to do was shave about 2 to 3 times a week, give it time to heal otherwise you're gonna keep on getting a rash. about shaving tips ...practise makes perfect..
When you go out with someone for a while, and break up there's always that thought of just one more time would have been nice. There's nothing bad what you guys did it's perfectley normal as you both just did it for the fun and both know that there'...
If you really want to be with him wait for your Friend to settle down first. Best would be if she gets another boyfriend but right now isn't a good idea..