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why would you come in and post something like that? Have a real opinion not cutting is gross you have no idea everything that goes along with it.
Lst time I checked the question was about obama, who now thinks our problems can be solved by filling up our tires the entire way and can simple stop russia from harassing other nations by simply asking according to his want to be running mate. as for ...
Haha where's hilary at. Not even remotely in this running. As much as she wants to be or thinks she can be. No one is really paying attention to her that much anymore. As far as being the most powerful nation... I think we maybe slipping. And I don't t...
so the muslim agrees with obama yet obama claims to be a christian eh? The bible states following god and walking in christs footsteps is part of the journey to heaven. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but when it comes down to it there is only on...
What: Did you eat for breakfast? pizza and doughnuts haha Is your middle name? marie Phrase do you say most often? sup yo Are you looking forward to in the next week? last week of work hell yea Music are you listening to? nothing Is your best ...
I don't understand why she is that great either qne there maybe some copyright things that go along with why she has to perform some songs as hannah but I don't like how she uses both identities either. I don't think she's that talented and I don't th...
amoeba's response to matt - back during Christ's life Jews were considered a race foremost... and people were referred to as being christians or jews like todays people are referred to as being irish or american. Ya have to take that into account ther...
John McCain had a massive town meeting in my area today and although I'm only hearing it over the radio I must say that I am very impressed with how intelligent this man actually is. The way he is made out to be is completely contradictory to what I'm ...
unless we're talking about what religion Obama is then... we could have a field day maybe even world war three!!! but actually trying to say politicians and people talking about politics should follow the gospel and not spread rumors exactly what natio...
well if you don't want others to read and respond then maybe you should not publicly post and you should funmail him. other people are going to respond to you. As a decently religious person I find it ridiculous that you would even try to relate religi...
Amoeba! The Gospel has no place in politics haha. I'm not even sure our nations laws have a place in politics anymore in some cases. Congress is not a chorus and the white house is not a st. peters for the pope. If it was I'm sure we'd have even bigger...
Well what you look like has a big impact on what other people think of you. People judge you within the first 5 seconds of meeting you... in that five seconds you tell me what they're judging you on. Plus looking good and staying in shape makes me fee...
do what? run it into the ground?
just explain it to him, be upfront and honest and if there is no longer a problem then you have nothing to worry about by being honest. tell him you still have some issues and some of the same habits but you are working on them.
ummm I don't believe you. but just go get a simple laxative from walmart, it'll take about 6-8hrs to work. If you were really doing it b/c you didn't feel well then why wouldnt you just go to the store/pharmacy and ask someone there, u'd get an answer ...
well w/o sit ups that'll be hard but there are a ton of ab exercises out there, but you can't spot reduce fat... therefore you have to like run and cardio stuff, for legs you can ride a bike and lunges are great walk up and down stairs for like 20 minu...
I don't know if you are still doing this, but it is self-mutilation and like lovelies said it is an addiction and not something to fool around with. If you can control it now you won't be able to if it goes on. It's hard to tell someone so pick someone...
I went through the exact same thing at school last year. I am an inch shorter than you was about 5 lbs heavier now I'm about 10 I plan on losing that 5 again. but the best thing to do is ignore them if they say something to you just ignore them go abou...
it's correct to say you can't spot reduce fat so as an abdominal nut I'll give you advice do cardio for about 20minutes a day do your crunches for abs and obliques then do leg lifts where you lie flat on your back legs straight and raise them from a 20...
I personally love the contradiction amblessed makes first you say we are just judging obama by the color of his skin and then you make a post about how much more experience mccain has do you have a position or are you just going back and forth. I think...
UPDATE: I gave my counselor a hypothetical situation and he said he didn't have to report it. I told him and he didn't. Explanation: unless I'm underage and still in danger he doesn't have to report it. If I'm still in danger and overage he doesn't ha...
Well my dad was abusive and I became very withdrawn and afraid to express my emotions and had a hard continuing to trust people. Low self-esteems is def a sign, fear of being touched or approached. A change in habits like eating or sleeping or what the...
you would probably go about a better life and have more opprotunities and you might even learn how to spell who knows and use grammar. But the bottom line is Obama does not make for a good presidential candidate. I mean he calls for all these peaceful ...
r you serious? is that like a real honest reply? if you're gunna cut yourself make sure your making money off it. that's an insult to every self-injurer out there. except for yourself I assume. my suggestion is that noone read the above advice and if y...
Cutting is ok but sooner or later you start to see what your hiding and that cutting can't help those problems anymore. and you want to be in a happy but you have all those scars that keep reminding you of those bad times. you'll be ready to give up cu...
people change, it's probably not because of you, so don't take it out on yourself. but he's showing it toward you because you were dating, and you were close, he was takin you and the relationship for granted, don't let him do that to you. your worth m...
I'm very much done with this question and probably politics for a while this question has made me realize why I really hate that part of history
yes I don't like obama for president whether he be mexican jewish canadian or american or whether his name is jesus christ I don't think he has the credentials to be president. I never really looked into his background because frankly I don't care tha...
I am very undecided on the election, all I know is it's going to be interesting
I'm neither actrually
his father is an important player in the government over there. I'm not exactly sure on the particulars but just knowing that makes me very uneasyabout having him as president.
I'm not talkin about religion he has political ties over there POLITICAL!!! nothing to do with religion I do not care if a man is jewish. hindu, buddist I care if he has political ties to them.
I do not think that these two candidates can be effective in the presidency. That is my view. Personally right now, in a time of war and conflict I do not want a women president running my nation, possibly in the future. Also, I do not want some one wi...
were they at war with the nations? because I maybe jus really wrong then who knows lol, I do not any more.
I agree my decision is still out there right now the front runner in my mind is mccain. I don't think that other countries will be bale to respect a women yet, even if she is president of one of the powerful nations in the world. even if the us is read...
I agree my decision is still out there right now the front runner in my mind is mccain. I don't think that other countries will be bale to respect a women yet, even if she is president of one of the powerful nations in the world. even if the us is read...
he doesn't have enough experience and while he seems to relate to the people very well with words in his addresses after the caucuss' (not sure of that spelling) his speeches didn't really indicate and precise plans. and they were extremely similar. I...
Barrack Obama will not be able to handle the presidency. He does not seem like the best candidate.
he has muslim roots or sumthing I'm not exactly sure. I know his dad is in the political loop in the middle east or sumthing like that and personally I don't want someone in office who has any tie at all to the people that attacked us. I also just don'...
I didn't know they were from australia till aobut two seconds ago... lol sorry stopandsmelltheroses.
george bush's term is up...? I'm pretty sure it's against the constitution to have him run again...unless you're being sarcastic or I'm wrong and mis ocunted years?
Not hilary please, and not a muslim/black man please. However the media has decided that it only wants to emphasize the democratic side of the election this time around so I think more people are focused on the fact there is a black man and a womam run...
I have two tattoos one is in remembrance of my uncle who died 4 years ago it's a cross and it says only god can judge me and that is pretty much how he lived his life and that's an ideal he bestowed in me. I also have one of a sun and moon combo on my ...
Please stop now. After three years of cutting all the pain and thensome from when I started till now is still with me. I've recently started counceling and am getting better. I haven't cut in almost a year now. Well I kind of relapsed, but not really t...
MEDERMA!!! I cut too I use this it'll take a while and they won't go away completely for a few years but they will diminish a lot and I found that even that has made me feel better about it. Some of the older cutting scars I have have almost completely...
I don't know if you still need help but, I told my teacher after I graduated. Until they know for sure they might tell your parents they might not. After graduation he was under no legal obligation until then teachers are so if you don't by any means w...
You need to understand something. Cutting is a thought, not an urge, not a feeling, it's a though associated with a feeling. You also need to know there is no "good reason" to cut yourself. I use to think I had good reasons but I didn't. I began thinki...
If you thought it was perfectly ok you probably wouldn't be asking what our views on it are, so something tells me that you know it isn't okay to cut. Who's to say drinking or drugs are bad? Society does, although that's becoming a little more acceptab...
eating disorder cutting drugs of any type prostituting not taking care of sickness'
you can continue to wear long sleeves if it is on your forearms. If it's your wrists wear bracelets or watches until they heal. If you are still cutting please get help asap. It will be hard, but it will help. Until you decide you can stop start cuttin...