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gothpirate's Advice
It's a sad world we live in now. I just found out that my girlfriend's sister lost her virginity to a 15 year-old boy (she's 17). When I was 15, I was thinking about video games and skateboarding. Don't know how things changed so much without me not...
Don't blame yourself. Today's society has made sex seem okay. They make it seem like a fun thing to do without any consequences. Girls today associate sex with love. Virgins are made fun of, called horrible names. You did all you could by making s...
Sources, please?
I agree. In order to be legally considered a male, a person should be required to remove all traces of the female reproductive organs from their body. The way I see it, it was just a bearded woman having a baby. I think she just wanted the attention...
Possibly, but it's a whole lot of trouble to go through all of the flushing and urinating just to pass a drug test. Keep in mind that Meth generally stays in the system for around 72 hours or more. Certo is more commonly used to mask the THC in marij...
I was a member of a T.A.P.S group for a while, and I can tell you that I saw so many crazy things while I was with them that it would be hard for me not to believe in ghosts. There was one instance when we were investigating an abandoned hospital, and...
I would go with Bill Kaulitz myself. He has so many different looks that it shouldn't be a problem to do twelve pieces of him. Then there's Johnny Depp, who also has a crapload of looks that he works with. People from alternative movies/bands genera...
Summergirls - LFO, Thunder - Boys Like Girls, and pretty much anything by the Beach Boys. I used to have this huge summer playlist on my comp, but the darn thing crashed...
I don't know anything about the Sidekick LX, but I found a post on T-Mobile's forum that gives a link to some software that you can use to convert vids that you have into the correct format. I had to convert vids to MPEG4 files for my Sansa View, so I...
It could even be acne. I know plenty of people, male and female, who have gotten acne on their inner thighs. If it continues to bother you after a few days, you might want to go see a doctor in case it's something more serious.
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You don't look all that naive to me. I look completely clueless most of the time, and people try to mess with me a lot. I just had to learn to ignore them, and never take anything at face value. Looking naive has its perks, though. You could play a...
TeenGrace.net is a christian networking site for teens. You might be able to make some connections there if you search in your area.
I understand where you're coming from, wanting so badly to help her. It seems like the basis of her problem is drugs, since she cheated on you to get the drugs. Depending on what kind of drugs she's using, you may be able to help her break the habit ...
Maybe you could get some of your friends to tell her that she looks good as well? When my girl's confidence drops (she is in the same boat as yours), I always encourage my friends to compliment her. It seems to boost her self-esteem when it's someone...
Awesome! Thanks for the advice everyone ^.^ It's very much appreciated!
I was thinking of trying some veggie burgers. I had some not too long ago that tasted just like the real thing. I just can't figure out what brand they were...*Sigh* Oh well. Baby steps.
If my girl told me she wanted a sex change, then I would back her up 100%. She would still be the same person I fell in love with, regardless of her physical gender.
I think you need to have a talk with him. Let him know your fears and anxieties, and make sure he knows that relationships go both ways. If you're the only one putting effort into the relationship, then you're only setting yourself up for heartache i...
I was raised in a strictly Christian environment (Southern Baptist, to be precise), and I was always told that only those who accepted Christ as their Savior would be allowed into Heaven. None of that ever made sense to me, though. There are many rel...
As far as I know, you can't do any real damage by masturbating several times daily, unless you use weird tools to do it with. My personal record is 6 times in one day, and I've been doing it almost daily since I discovered how. Everything's still wor...
Most likely, no. You'll know if your hymen breaks, you'll be able to feel it. If you're really worried about it, though, a Gynecologist should be able to do a routine check for you.
Blue balls is a myth. Not a real physical condition. You should see a Urologist, though, just in case something was messed up in the works. I also wouldn't rule out the possibility of infection. Not saying that your girlfriend is dirty or anything,...
If he doesn't have the courtesy to tell you that he has another call, then chances are he won't show you any respect regarding more serious matters. You should address the problem and let him know that you don't appreciate being blown off like that.
I would warn him before changing, so he knows not to just barge in. If it makes you uncomfortable, there is no reason why you should have to put up with it. You should also try to get your parents to give you your own room, because sharing a room wit...
He's also diabetic, correct? Being overweight can have some serious consequences for people with diabetes, and you should let him know that you're concerned for his health. Many overweight diabetics are very sensitive about their weight, and I don't ...
It can hurt, but only for a moment. After that, everything should be okay. It hurts worse for some than others, though, so there really isn't a definitive answer for this one. So long as he's gentle, the pain should only be fleeting. Just be safe.
I have had a few diabetic friends, and most of them consume vast amounts of junk with no major problems. I guess it all depends on what type of diabetes he has, since some forms are more severe than others. So long as he's careful, and checks his sug...
Have them take you for a psychiatric evaluation. If you really need those meds, that will probably be your best bet. That's how I got mine, anyway, but they generally only work for you if you have a chemical imbalance. At any rate, you should see a ...
I just want you to know that you are awesome. If there were more people who didn't believe in slapping a label on everything, then the world would be a much better place.
When you're that young, your body is still trying to adjust from all the changes it is going through. You might try considering birth control, even though you aren't sexually active. A friend of mine had very irregular periods, and finally they had ...
Yeah, I don't agree with the guitar string method. In the event that the guitar string should break, which happens frequently, the string will go shooting off and bury itself in whatever it happens to be pointing to at the time. Not very safe, if you...
Thanks for the advice, guys. It still might be a little while before I actually ask her, at least until after Christmas...So I'll use that time putting together something really special. You guys have given me the inspiration I needed to make the mom...
Ehm..No. Sorry, Goth is Goth. You can't define it with a bunch of big words, and you can't seriously expect someone to adhere to a specific criteria just to be worthy of being called a true Goth. Seems like you're trying to create a faction within o...
Yeah, the 3 year old unanswered questions are a bit much...But that's about it.
Old enough to be of legal age in your area, for starters. That isn't all though. A person who is thinking of having a baby has to be certain that they can support the child and give it a loving and stable home. A woman in her 30's, who is addicted t...
Well, the first thing I would recommend is to treat yourself to something that you really want. Do something that makes you happy. You sound like you could use some relaxation right now. Your self-esteem will build itself back up over time, if you d...
You shouldn't stay in a relationship if you aren't happy. There is a such thing as marrying the wrong person, and it seems like this is one of those cases. Marriage is a giant commitment, not just to you and your husband, but to your kids as well. I...
So you're 15 and have never given head before...You should keep it that way. Don't do stuff like that just because you "really like" somebody. Your nervousness is your body telling you that it isn't the right thing to do. Sure, when you meet the rig...
First off, there's really nothing wrong with being 18 and never been kissed. Much better than being 14 and pregnant. Now that that's out of the way...Guys tend to check their phones, then get sucked into some other activity and completely forget to r...
Well you have to remember, photos taken for magazines and such are usually touched up to remove blemishes, unwanted hair, and even to shave off a few pounds. There's no such thing as perfect skin, and your boyfriend shouldn't care about your skin anyw...
2 minutes at least twice a day is what my dentist told me.
They get a bad rap. The only mean ones I've seen are the ones who were trained to be that way..
I don't know if they work or not, 'cause I've never actually known someone whose used one. There are some health risks though, such as burst blood vessels and and a high risk of impotency. I wouldn't bother with it, 'cause what's the use in having a ...
There are a few bots that actually work, but the only ones that are guaranteed not to get you caught are the ones you have to pay for. You're better off getting it the old-fashioned way.
It seems like you have nervous anxiety, which can easily be treated with medications. You should ask your doctor or psychiatrist about treatment.
Unfortunately, racism runs rampant in all parts of the world. People disapprove of interracial relationships for a couple of reasons: 1)They misinterpret the Bible, which warns against marriage to a different faith or color. 2)They've grown up that w...
Sorry, but in most states you have to be 18 to move out on your own.
Sounds like all he's into is the bedroom action. If you really don't wanna be with a guy like that, you need to break it off quick. If you stay with him too long, you might find yourself unable to get away from him. As for the self-esteem thing, you ju...
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