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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
gothpirate's Advice
Most likely, no. You'll know if your hymen breaks, you'll be able to feel it. If you're really worried about it, though, a Gynecologist should be able to do a routine check for you.
China cannot be effectively dealt with until our debts to them are repaid. How would you plan on eliminating our debts without reducing the country to a poverty-stricken hovel?
Blue balls is a myth. Not a real physical condition. You should see a Urologist, though, just in case something was messed up in the works. I also wouldn't rule out the possibility of infection. Not saying that your girlfriend is dirty or anything,...
If he doesn't have the courtesy to tell you that he has another call, then chances are he won't show you any respect regarding more serious matters. You should address the problem and let him know that you don't appreciate being blown off like that.
I would warn him before changing, so he knows not to just barge in. If it makes you uncomfortable, there is no reason why you should have to put up with it. You should also try to get your parents to give you your own room, because sharing a room wit...
He's also diabetic, correct? Being overweight can have some serious consequences for people with diabetes, and you should let him know that you're concerned for his health. Many overweight diabetics are very sensitive about their weight, and I don't ...
It can hurt, but only for a moment. After that, everything should be okay. It hurts worse for some than others, though, so there really isn't a definitive answer for this one. So long as he's gentle, the pain should only be fleeting. Just be safe.
I have had a few diabetic friends, and most of them consume vast amounts of junk with no major problems. I guess it all depends on what type of diabetes he has, since some forms are more severe than others. So long as he's careful, and checks his sug...
Have them take you for a psychiatric evaluation. If you really need those meds, that will probably be your best bet. That's how I got mine, anyway, but they generally only work for you if you have a chemical imbalance. At any rate, you should see a ...
I just want you to know that you are awesome. If there were more people who didn't believe in slapping a label on everything, then the world would be a much better place.
Haha, this is fun. Well, I have an old-school black RAZR v3. His name is Sable. Because he's black.
When you're that young, your body is still trying to adjust from all the changes it is going through. You might try considering birth control, even though you aren't sexually active. A friend of mine had very irregular periods, and finally they had ...
Well, loneliness is a hard thing to cope with. The best thing to do is keep your promise to yourself and don't jump into another relationship too quickly. Keep yourself busy to take your mind off of things. That's the easiest way to deal with it. K...
Yeah, I don't agree with the guitar string method. In the event that the guitar string should break, which happens frequently, the string will go shooting off and bury itself in whatever it happens to be pointing to at the time. Not very safe, if you...
Thanks for the advice, guys. It still might be a little while before I actually ask her, at least until after Christmas...So I'll use that time putting together something really special. You guys have given me the inspiration I needed to make the mom...
Ehm..No. Sorry, Goth is Goth. You can't define it with a bunch of big words, and you can't seriously expect someone to adhere to a specific criteria just to be worthy of being called a true Goth. Seems like you're trying to create a faction within o...
Yeah, the 3 year old unanswered questions are a bit much...But that's about it.
Old enough to be of legal age in your area, for starters. That isn't all though. A person who is thinking of having a baby has to be certain that they can support the child and give it a loving and stable home. A woman in her 30's, who is addicted t...
Well, the first thing I would recommend is to treat yourself to something that you really want. Do something that makes you happy. You sound like you could use some relaxation right now. Your self-esteem will build itself back up over time, if you d...
Physically sick? Maybe. Depends on whether or not they've had their flu shot ;-) Psychologically sick? The answer is no. There has been no evidence to date of homosexuality being tied to any sort of mental illness. Homosexuals are born the way they...
Honestly, it makes them feel good. It's a completely different sensation than, well, the other thing. A lot of girls prefer it, because they actually get some satisfaction from it. A lot of times when it's done the other way, the guy's already finis...
You shouldn't stay in a relationship if you aren't happy. There is a such thing as marrying the wrong person, and it seems like this is one of those cases. Marriage is a giant commitment, not just to you and your husband, but to your kids as well. I...
So you're 15 and have never given head before...You should keep it that way. Don't do stuff like that just because you "really like" somebody. Your nervousness is your body telling you that it isn't the right thing to do. Sure, when you meet the rig...
First off, there's really nothing wrong with being 18 and never been kissed. Much better than being 14 and pregnant. Now that that's out of the way...Guys tend to check their phones, then get sucked into some other activity and completely forget to r...
Well you have to remember, photos taken for magazines and such are usually touched up to remove blemishes, unwanted hair, and even to shave off a few pounds. There's no such thing as perfect skin, and your boyfriend shouldn't care about your skin anyw...
2 minutes at least twice a day is what my dentist told me.
They get a bad rap. The only mean ones I've seen are the ones who were trained to be that way..
I don't know if they work or not, 'cause I've never actually known someone whose used one. There are some health risks though, such as burst blood vessels and and a high risk of impotency. I wouldn't bother with it, 'cause what's the use in having a ...
There are a few bots that actually work, but the only ones that are guaranteed not to get you caught are the ones you have to pay for. You're better off getting it the old-fashioned way.
It seems like you have nervous anxiety, which can easily be treated with medications. You should ask your doctor or psychiatrist about treatment.
I wouldn't advise using any sort of love spell. These types of spells affect a person's free will and the threefold rule will come back horribly on you if you cast one.
Unfortunately, racism runs rampant in all parts of the world. People disapprove of interracial relationships for a couple of reasons: 1)They misinterpret the Bible, which warns against marriage to a different faith or color. 2)They've grown up that w...
Technically it was George Washington. The first actual President of the U.S. was John Hanson.
Sorry, but in most states you have to be 18 to move out on your own.
Sounds like all he's into is the bedroom action. If you really don't wanna be with a guy like that, you need to break it off quick. If you stay with him too long, you might find yourself unable to get away from him. As for the self-esteem thing, you ju...
I had the same problem, but it's my girlfriend who always wanted it. I think the best thing for you to do is to sit down and discuss the problem with him. Try to think of the reasons behind all of this. Does it turn you off when he asks for it? Have y...
Gaia Online is mostly just a giant forum, since that's where most of the action takes place. When you sign up for an account, you get to choose an avatar which you can dress with items from the Gaia Shops. You can earn gold by playing games or posting...
First off, I want to congratulate you an being such a protective mother. The internet is a dangerous place, and MySpace is one of the most dangerous sites out there, in my opinion. Even in a strictly controlled environment, kids can get into big troub...
That sounds like quite a lot of trouble for a few gold. You could get the same amount playing jigsaw for all that time you would be spending...