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Masturbating shouldn't have any effect on your the time it takes for you to have your period. Masturbating is however, healthy for both sexes. - Gothik
Most guys can be asses to girls without realizing it sometimes, perhaps if nothing works out you should expand yourself to other people to see if they are worth going out with. You'll have to talk to him about how that makes you feel because he need...
You could but it would have to be a pretty big pen, but instead of a writing utensil try using a carrot because they are safer and you can cut them into the right shape of your choice. Or you could use a cucumber and cut it up how you want. A pen or an...
Just be careful, there are people online that aren't always what they seem.
Don't worry about it unless he ask you the question first. If he does ask you just tell him that your not into relationships right now, don't tell him that you see him only as a friend because that might hurt his feelings. It's best to just wait to see...
Well, his age also could affect what he says around you. He most likely wants attention so just ignore him when it comes to name calling, then he will understand it's getting old and eventually he will quit. Good luck. - Gothik
Nope, he can still be convicted.
It sounds like he liked you, and at the same time, in a way sorta used you. You should confront him and tell him that if he is gonna be with you then he shouldn't pull crap like he did. What he did is (What I would say) disrespectful. - Gothik
Doesn't sound much like a question does it? More like advice in question form... - Gothik
I think it depends on culture, some places like the idea others don't. But also if the relationship is really good with you two then there shouldn't be problem with giving him a ring. You can try places like hot topic or some other stores that are simi...
Be friends with a guy, after about 7-12 months of getting to know him get his number. (This is when you and him REALLY start to communicate.) You'll call him maybe 3-4 times a week, unless he calls you. If he calls you, remember that means your on HIS ...
You can do two things: Hold your breathe, or breathe through your nose. And if the situation is right and your both VERY aroused you can breathe in his mouth and if he says something about it you can use the excuse "I'm to turned on to breathe softly."...
This isn't really a question, but the best/easiest/healthiest way to lose weight is drinking a massive amount of water at least over a water, and NOTHING else.
Yes. If you want to know more, send me a message. - Gothik
Er, strange question since I am a guy, but if I was a girl I would want a guy with both, unless I have to choose those 2, I would choose nice. A nice guy would have a better lifestyle, but a not so nice guy can lead to abuse, and a crappy life, don't y...
On average? 20-40 minutes. - Gothik
That's part of a woman. Sorry, most women get used to it though. ^^; - Gothik
You need to think for yourself. Getting laid and being with a girl isn't everything, sure it's great and we all love being with girls, but sometimes you have to think about yourself first. Think about it, what is more important, your well being, or you...
You can use your tounge, most people consider it to be sexy and arousing. It's not really weird, or at least I have never heard of using tounge to be considered weird. Try it out and have fun. :) - Gothik
Being fingered doesn't mean she loses her virginity, even if her cherry is popped, it doesn't mean she's no longer a virgin. ONLY if she has sexual intercourse will she no longer be a virgin. - Gothik
Perhaps you should give him this evidence and tell him how you feel. You shouldn't keep things like this for your boyfriend because it is very unhealthy for a relationship. Just tell him you feel uncomfortable with his ex at his house, after he's expla...
Well, if there is a guy that your interested in perhaps you should assert yourself and ask him out, judging by your profile pictures, your very attractive and it's no wonder that you get looks all the time. Sometimes when a girl is so attractive the gu...
What he did is hypocritical and you should tell him that what he did was seriously stupid. He can't do that and then do something else without telling you and completely leave you out of the picture without a single thought or care about how you would ...
Just try self control excersizes, write a journal and keep up with how much you eat on a weekly/daily bases or chew gum instead of eating. If you drink water it can stop hunger in most people because water to so filling. - Gothik
It is said that the tree brings good fortune, and the tree started in Taiwan and it gained popularity. http://www.natureperfect.com/shop/money_tree_bonsai.html This website has some information about the money tree if your interested in reading ...
When your not enjoying something you should tell him what to do, it's called experimentation, let him know what you like and how you like to be touched in those areas. Don't let him think he is good and risk you being hurt and faking it, you need to ma...
It is said that a ring will increase pleasure, but some guys don't like the rings. So maybe you could tell him that if he doesn't like the ring on then you will just take it out when your giving him head or something, but make sure he agrees to the exp...
Just hang out with him more, figure out his "Pros and cons", collect data about him, make sure he's right for you before you ask him the question. Be friends with him for a long time, perhaps a couple of months and get his number, call him about 3 or 4...
You can search on www.poetry.com for "Robert Key" that's my name, there are some love poems, dark poems, war poems, game poems, or whatever. I have like 3-5 love poems, you can see if you like them if you want. Make sure when you search the name is "Ro...
Your just 14, you don't need to worry about it. When your like 16-18 you will a huge difference as you pass in your years. - Gothik
It depends on their race, their geographic location, age, maturity growth, etc. Maybe 5-5.8 inches? The average length for americans is like 6-7 inches at ages 19-25 and that is when the penis usually stops growing in length. - Gothik
It doesn't matter, the most experienced in my opinion should be the more assertive one to experiment with the other so the inexperienced can learn what to do. So maybe it's best for the one who is new to sex to be on bottom, unless there is a weight di...
Sure I would be happy to assist you. - Gothik
Upload them on youtube, create yourself a myspace profile and advertise in groups that you can join. If you don't want to do the American Idol thing.
Some people have the disability to have an orgasm, sometimes their climax is cut off due to certain physical problems... _ / \ / \ / \ This is my sad excuse for a climax chart, notice the tip isn't there? It should be like...
The best huh? Mine was lame too. I would want ALL of my friends there, have video game tournaments set up on big screen t.v.s, and have go-cart races for hours. Maybe have a couple of cosplaying hours at hand for my anime friends. I would want alot ...
Just because he hasn't made you climax doesn't mean he isn't right for you. If you want to tell me more about this send me a message. What is he trying to convert you to? And what do you believe? Him lying is not good no matter what, so just mak...
You can try: http://www.2flashgames.com http://www.candystand.com http://www.newgrounds.com and search for racing games http://car-racing-games.freeonlinegames.com/ http://www.streetracersonline.com/ http://www.net-games.biz/
Figure out what he likes, ask him questions and stuff. Once you've collected your data on how to impress him just do what you think might be helpful towards a healthy relationship. - Gothik
Since your 14 you'll have to use smaller items. I'll give you a list of things you can try... Carrots, cucumbers, start off small and work your way up to larger items and see how it works out for you.
It's like I said, basics of foreplay. Make out with him, tease him, love him, do things he likes to do. Here's a wise proverb I found recently... "Men are easy to get, but hard to keep." It's in a way true because boys usually are so darn gree...
Hm, your only 13 and he's 14, his hormones are raging right now, raging very much they are. If I were you I would stick to the simple basics of foreplay and leave oral out. Here, this is the perfect age chart for certain sexual things... 15 - Pos...
If your fire wall if using (School system?) uses Light Speed, there is a program that literally destroys light speed, it's a sexy program and I love it. I think it's called Light Speed Killer actually, but it's funny, when the admins at school try to u...
I think wal mart hires 15 year olds, try fast food places. @budman - I don't know if you know this, but life isn't short at all, no where near short. Think about it, life is the longest thing we have to live for, isn't it? Therefore it isn't short.
Not everyone is a smart ass so don't judge a handful of the world unless you know that handful, a smart ass will exist in almost every household and it is because humans are all different, and smart assness(?) is a form of sarcasm so don't worry about ...
Some guys are like that, like me, it takes me a while to "warm up" sexually to someone new and it takes me a while to get comfortable with them sexually. Every time you two start getting intiment go a bit closer to the next step after you've been m...
It shouldn't be limp. But like that person said, you should only do that to someone you love, unless your a slut, in which case it's ok. =) - Gothik P.S. The last part was a form of sarcasm so please don't take it as an insult lol.
Duh?
Depends on what they are fighting for, to protect, to destroy, for honor, pride, revenge, for fun, for love, or hate. Fights in my opinion are pathetic unless you HAVE to protect something or honor someone. If they are fighting over anything exc...
It's ok to give a blow job with braces on, just make sure to tell her to be very, very careful. Some people might really like the sensation of the braces. From a sexual health point of view, with braces you need to be careful not to cut or scratch ...