CAN anyone HELP ME
Well, your boyfriend really shouldnt have basically bragged to his friend(s) about the whole situation. That was immature.
IM PREGNANT AND MY BOYFRIEND WONT WORK! HELP
this may not be the politically correct thing to do but it has to be done to salvage what life you have left. first get an abortion, yes you need to. you are 19 years old and will not be able to meet a decent guy when you have a child nor will you be a...
Should I wait, I want him really bad!!!
okay, i was reading the comment left by the kitty person above..why cant she consider abortion?! thats stupid. abortion is NOT cruel or inhumane. its a option if you accidentily become pregnant. i am 100% Pro-Choice, there is nothing wrong with abortio...
it hurt. a lot.
awe dear i can only amagine how hurt you are. thats horrible. you want to hate him (mind you, you should after he did this to you)but you still care about him so much that you cant. and i understand that feeling completely. but what you have to do here...
Having sex with an ex boyfriend.
if you dont want to been in a relationship then you have to talk things over with him. for example if one of you found someone else...you have to talk about what would change and everything. its really not an advice subject, you just really have to tal...
i need help!
well first find out if you are blood related or by marriage. if by blood i recommend not getting in relationship with her, but if by marriage i dont see why it would bother anyone..only if (like said above) your families are very close. good luck.
help!!!!
just ask her. i know is embarassing but i dont think theres any other way to get her to get you one. just tell her you're getting to the age where you need to wear them. she'll understand.
Advice Needed!!!
okay well there are a few options to what the deal is.
1. she may really trust you and feel for you as a very good friend, she may have no romantic feelings what-so-ever.
2. she likes you as you like her but the age difference may scare her, be...
broken heart
i agree, you may have to say good bye to him. good things dont last forever. but one thing you can try is to act un-interested in him. act like you've moved on and dont care about him anymore. spilling your feelings out to him only tells him you arent ...
two girls one guy!!!
well honestly there isnt much you can do. but if i were you i would get someone who you dont nessisarily know very well. like a distant friend to hint to your ex about your friends plans with this other guy, Max. then if he asks you about it be very se...
MY BOY FRIEND WANTS TO HAVE SEX BUT IM NOT READY
i agree with lagrandellama he isnt worth it sweetie. you'll find someone better who will respect your wishes. if he cant accept the fact that you arent ready you shouldnt be wasteing your time. he'll come running back in the end because you were the g...
I want to do it but dont have the oppurtunity
if you truly love each other and you trust him i would do it at one of you twos houses (which ever one has the less chance of someone coming home or walking in) when no one is home or expected to be home. good luck.
im pregnant who should I tell first
def. get an abortion. a child at this age will just ruin your life. go to planned parent hood and get it taken care of. good luck.
i like him and he likes me but he has a girl
i know where you're coming from. it sounds to me like he likes you but not nearly as much as you like him. he seems to want to lead you on so that you're there just in case him and his girlfriend break up....like a back up...sorry, but your best bet is...
breakup
he didnt really love you, sorry. but if you only dated for one day he never loved you or he would have stayed with you. if you hopelessly loved him and he knew that he probably went out with you to make you feel better.
sorry and good luck.
Controlling Boyfriend
oh hun NO! NEVER let a man hit you!!! nope he has no excuse for laying a hand on you! you are being controlled and you need to kick his ass to the curb!! he should NOT be treating you like that! my Dad was JUST LIKE THIS with my Mom and you DONT want t...
Two great guys! How do I choose?
okay, im in some what the same problem: trying to choose between to amazing guys. well the guys you seem to be choosing between seem to be very different. it all boils down to what YOU want in a boyfriend. do you want someone who talks to you in school...
sadgril
I agree with Danielle. they're how you can tell if your boyfriend is cheating. also if he always calls you by you name and never by "sweetheart" "hun" etc. and then all of a sudden doesnt call you by your name anymore but my sweetheart, hun etc. it may...
he wants to and I want to
If you both want to have sex then you shouldnt feel uncomfortable around him. Of course it is your first time so you will be nervous but if you're both ready the time will come and if will be right for both of you. Good Luck.
what should I do?
Well if he doesnt respect the fact that you arent ready then he doesnt truly care about you. Second if he wont purchase condoms then dont do anything. The risk for pregnancy and STDs is too high to take the chance. Good Luck.
sex
Okay, there is no 100% way to protect yourself against getting pregnant except not having sex at all. But using a condom definitly cuts down your chance by a long shot. And if possible get your Mother to put you on birth control, not only for sexual pr...
I'm getting married in a week and not sure if I love him.
Okay. If you arent sure if you love him DONT marry him to please others. Because people wouldnt marry someone they dont love to please you. Do what you want, if you dont love him and dont want to marry him then simply DONT. Its your decision, not your ...
I AM SO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!!HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay I know how you feel. You shouldnt obsess over him to your guy friend (his brother), he will end up telling his brother and then he wont want anything to do with you because he'll assume you are obsessive. Big no no. Second you should get your frie...
How do I know if I am for sure ready to get fingered or give a blowjob?
Hi Millee,
I have had almost the same problem. I understand where you are coming from. You should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If he loves you like you love him he will understand and try to make the expieriance better and more comfort...
fdh7876's Advice
Well, your boyfriend really shouldnt have basically bragged to his friend(s) about the whole situation. That was immature.
this may not be the politically correct thing to do but it has to be done to salvage what life you have left. first get an abortion, yes you need to. you are 19 years old and will not be able to meet a decent guy when you have a child nor will you be a...
okay, i was reading the comment left by the kitty person above..why cant she consider abortion?! thats stupid. abortion is NOT cruel or inhumane. its a option if you accidentily become pregnant. i am 100% Pro-Choice, there is nothing wrong with abortio...
awe dear i can only amagine how hurt you are. thats horrible. you want to hate him (mind you, you should after he did this to you)but you still care about him so much that you cant. and i understand that feeling completely. but what you have to do here...
i havent but i would ask him about it, it might be embarrasing but it's better than getting infected yourself. good luck.
if you dont want to been in a relationship then you have to talk things over with him. for example if one of you found someone else...you have to talk about what would change and everything. its really not an advice subject, you just really have to tal...
well first find out if you are blood related or by marriage. if by blood i recommend not getting in relationship with her, but if by marriage i dont see why it would bother anyone..only if (like said above) your families are very close. good luck.
just ask her. i know is embarassing but i dont think theres any other way to get her to get you one. just tell her you're getting to the age where you need to wear them. she'll understand.
okay well there are a few options to what the deal is. 1. she may really trust you and feel for you as a very good friend, she may have no romantic feelings what-so-ever. 2. she likes you as you like her but the age difference may scare her, be...
i agree, you may have to say good bye to him. good things dont last forever. but one thing you can try is to act un-interested in him. act like you've moved on and dont care about him anymore. spilling your feelings out to him only tells him you arent ...
well honestly there isnt much you can do. but if i were you i would get someone who you dont nessisarily know very well. like a distant friend to hint to your ex about your friends plans with this other guy, Max. then if he asks you about it be very se...
i agree with lagrandellama he isnt worth it sweetie. you'll find someone better who will respect your wishes. if he cant accept the fact that you arent ready you shouldnt be wasteing your time. he'll come running back in the end because you were the g...
if you truly love each other and you trust him i would do it at one of you twos houses (which ever one has the less chance of someone coming home or walking in) when no one is home or expected to be home. good luck.
def. get an abortion. a child at this age will just ruin your life. go to planned parent hood and get it taken care of. good luck.
im 5'3"
i know where you're coming from. it sounds to me like he likes you but not nearly as much as you like him. he seems to want to lead you on so that you're there just in case him and his girlfriend break up....like a back up...sorry, but your best bet is...
he didnt really love you, sorry. but if you only dated for one day he never loved you or he would have stayed with you. if you hopelessly loved him and he knew that he probably went out with you to make you feel better. sorry and good luck.
oh hun NO! NEVER let a man hit you!!! nope he has no excuse for laying a hand on you! you are being controlled and you need to kick his ass to the curb!! he should NOT be treating you like that! my Dad was JUST LIKE THIS with my Mom and you DONT want t...
okay, im in some what the same problem: trying to choose between to amazing guys. well the guys you seem to be choosing between seem to be very different. it all boils down to what YOU want in a boyfriend. do you want someone who talks to you in school...
I agree with Danielle. they're how you can tell if your boyfriend is cheating. also if he always calls you by you name and never by "sweetheart" "hun" etc. and then all of a sudden doesnt call you by your name anymore but my sweetheart, hun etc. it may...
If you both want to have sex then you shouldnt feel uncomfortable around him. Of course it is your first time so you will be nervous but if you're both ready the time will come and if will be right for both of you. Good Luck.
Well if he doesnt respect the fact that you arent ready then he doesnt truly care about you. Second if he wont purchase condoms then dont do anything. The risk for pregnancy and STDs is too high to take the chance. Good Luck.
Okay, there is no 100% way to protect yourself against getting pregnant except not having sex at all. But using a condom definitly cuts down your chance by a long shot. And if possible get your Mother to put you on birth control, not only for sexual pr...
Okay. If you arent sure if you love him DONT marry him to please others. Because people wouldnt marry someone they dont love to please you. Do what you want, if you dont love him and dont want to marry him then simply DONT. Its your decision, not your ...
Okay I know how you feel. You shouldnt obsess over him to your guy friend (his brother), he will end up telling his brother and then he wont want anything to do with you because he'll assume you are obsessive. Big no no. Second you should get your frie...
Hi Millee, I have had almost the same problem. I understand where you are coming from. You should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If he loves you like you love him he will understand and try to make the expieriance better and more comfort...