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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
i'm a moderate Republican. My hobbies are playing poker and chess.
i'm a Deist but i do believe in evolution. My religious beliefs, which i wrote several years ago (A Search for Truth), can be viewed at the URL above.
i may not agree with you but i cherish your right to disagree (even if you are wrong).
drumdiva11's Advice
you probably hear this a lot but, just be yurself! girls like guys who are true to themselves and are sincere and respectful. besides you can't really choose who you like:( still, I think if you just keep holding on, you'll get a look or somethin. I ag...
Thanx for all the answers! My fave is purple wothout a doubt. Go Purple :)
Probably Steve Carrell, Monty Python, Will Ferrel, and Jim Carrey
Fall: My B-day, the chilly weather, the smells Spring: the new life, the rain, the warmth I used to like winter a little, but this year it cut into my fave season, so I'm mad.
I used to be like that, but now I'm better at sticking up for myself. I find it easier to say things if you already have somethign planned in your head for those kind of situations like, "Hey I need some space, please can you move over?" or "That hurt....
When things like this happen, all you can do is take it and remember that God sees her doing that. That's what I tell myself all the time now because it really helps me calm down after something like that happens.
On earth before the fall of man, everything was perfect. The only thing or should I say person who wasn't perfect was Satan. He turned from God and was cast out of heaven to the earth. All evil and temptation comes from him. So, even if it wasn't the d...
No. The Bible was written over hundredsof years by many different people including Moses, Paul, Matthew, and John. God inspired these people to write about what he wanted the world to know, which means that everything in there should be.
Tes. Who knows? Whover you're killing might be the next Einstein or something. Even from the single cell at the beginning of all human life, they're human. You have to think about what they'll be able to do someday, not this very minute.
Dude, stop you're making me jealous!!! :D
Yeah, if I was your friend, I would want to know. But that's because I don't know if anyone likes me :(. I say go for it! If she's a true friend, she'll want to stay friends. It may alter her opinion of you in a good or bad way, but it's worth the risk...
I play drums and like appositives, and I was born on the 11th day of the 11th month at 11:00. Simple. (Besides, I'm a beast at drums!!! ;))
I'm a Christian, and I beleive that even though it's Muslim and Christian and Jewish law to not kill, not everyone obeys that. I feel as though, even though the army is "filled to the brim w/ Christians" It's because we believe that everyone has the ri...
WHOA. You HAVE to become a writer!!! Those are so good (and so true). They're amazing!!! Trust me, I want to be a writer.
I play drums, but it depends on what you want instead of everyone else. If you have a gift in either one, go for it! Try them both out, and find out which one you like better. Besides, everyone admires someone who can play both! If you are good at movi...
Look, just the other day a guy told me I was cute, and you are prbably way better looking than me! No need to change who you are! Besides, a true boy will like you for you!
You're not alone: I've tried alcohol but never really cared to have ever again. I don't smoke either. I have no idea why someone could smoke after knowing the horrible consequences. It's great that you're secure enough to tell your friends no. A lot of...
Ask him! There are a few main reasons why: 1.It won't be awkward if he finds out you like him, because you don't work together anymore. 2.If he says yes, it's awesome!!! You won't know unless you ask. 3.If he says no, it won't be awkward becasue y...
Hey, I know how you feel, but trust me: NO ONE LIKES THE WAY THEY LOOK. no matter what, there's always someone who wants different hair, eyes, or whatever. My friend hates her hair, but I would kill for it! No one ever is content with how they look.
Keep on being friends, trust me. Just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean it'll last! Friends often end up in a relationship anyway. His girlfriend may leave, and then you'll be there! Who knows? Maybe after a while he'll know more about you than ...
OH, P.S.: My really really really wise principal says little "relationships" like that where you break up every month or so help you PRACTICE FOR DIVORCE. It's true. They're used to loving someone and then moving on and loving someone else. Isn't that ...
I agree! People who date that young are insecure and think they have to have the opposite sex like them for them to be accepted. I'm single and loving it! You probably don't need a dude to tell you yur pretty for you to believe it! Enjoy being single w...
When Hillary becomes president will be the day I move to Canada! All my peeps are scared silly she'll try to start a dictatorship or murder streak!
NEVERMIND!! I found out how. I'm so smart...
I LOVE READING!!! Fantasy, sci-fi, anything!!!
I have had this exact same problem! I see him in the hall all the time and I get butterflies, too. I'm in 8th, he's in 9th. I decided to tell him that I dig him. I haven't yet because It would be awkward to tell him on a monday. Here's some tips I've l...
Hey, I feel ya girl! My whole church group is full of skinny girls. I feel so left out! I say, don't feel bad about it. Find styles that hide that. I have stomach fat, and I find baby doll tops look good on me and hide my stomach's size. Also, try blac...
It's more of personality for me. All the dudes I like aren't that cute to everyone else, but I think they're hot. Of course, it depends on the girl. I like happy, grateful, outgoing, funny, guys who have common sense and respect for me. It really depen...
I love poems! I get inspired to write when I have sudde emotions come up, or after something poignant or emotional happen. Other times, I get annoyed at people's behavior and I write about how they're heding for destruction emotionally. Poetry is perso...
PURPLE!! It looks good w/ blue, green, pink, anything!