doc_sel's Advice

• my girlfriend has kissed another guy
  im married and i kiss my guy pals all the time..a smooch on the lips..its not a big deal..if u dont have trust u have nothing..
  
  
• is my 3 year diffrence with girlfriend bad??
  your almost an adult what in the world do u have in common with a little girl?..does her parents know that she's dating someone so much older than her..not if she was 18 and u 21 thats not so bad but 14 is just so young..it dsn't matter that she dsn't ...
  
  
• I need a serious answer please!!
  well first of all im not ruining a happy marriage..he dsn't want to be with her either but right now we're just not in a position to leave..as for getting caught ur right it probably will happen..yes we do have kids thats the only reason we haven't end...
  
  
• I need a serious answer please!!
  well first of all im not ruining a happy marriage..he dsn't want to be with her either but right now we're just not in a position to leave..as for getting caught ur right it probably will happen..yes we do have kids thats the only reason we haven't end...
  
  
• Already have one child...thinking I am r
  are u serious?..u ask this question and then ask about him talking about his ex's in front of u?..u really have to ask yourself why you want another child..it is because of insecurity with b/f..u feeling lonely?..if ur going to be with him for a long t...
  
  
• please tell me about Sex
  first off ur question doesn't make any sense..u need to retype it..who do u like very much?..ur married and u know nothing about sex..lol
  
  
• I guess,I like my cousin...
  no matter how u feel about him u have to fight that urge because it is wrong..can u imagine what that'll do to ur family?..as for how they would react i'd be disgusted to find out that my family members were intimate with eachother..i could see if u we...
  
  
• Okay. Let me know
  please dont even consider abortion..I'm not trying to make u feel bad but what they do to that innocent child its disgusting..thats bs about being to young..age dsn't determine if ur a good mom or not its just if your ready to settle down and take resp...
  
  
• fighting with my husband
  i'm married to a pig so i know how u feel..if ur hubby is like mine u not doing it anymore is only going to cause u to have a bigger mess to clean up..also my hubby's mother did everything for him..he was 18 and she cleaned his room and make his bed ev...
  
  
• Having an affair with a married man? (50%)
  I know exactly how you feel..its hard being the other woman and to be honest with u..if he did get caught cheating do you really want to be known as the homewrecker..I'm having an affair with the love of my life..it sucks because I know that I have to ...
  
  
• Ideas for packing school lunch.
  I also have a picky daughter..she loves these..I use big cookie cutters and cut out the shapes into her bread i'm going to make her sandwich with..I buy the mini packs of chips, cookies, fruit snacks..have you tried letting them help you pack their lunch?
  
  
• menstrual periods
  http://www.ovarian-cysts-pcos.com/pcos.html sorry this one will work..good luck
  
  
• menstrual periods
  I had that problem we had our first child and it took 7 yrs to have another..have you heard of polycystic ovarian disease (PCOS)?.. http://www.ovarian-cysts-pcos.com/pcos.html..here is a website with some info..i'm sure you can find others that might b...
  
  
• orgasims
  I totally agree the tub thing is awesome..I know for me I can't get off just by intercourse..I need to have my clit played with and alot of times I'll do that while hubby is pumping away..it's not gross he actually loves watching me do it..just knowing...
  
  
• Controling boyfriend?
  first of he sounds very insecure about your relationship if you can't have any guy friends..what do you mean by he's nice to you now..I can sit here and tell you I'm in love with you and that your beautiful and make me the happiest person in the world....
  
  
• sex without birth control?
  I don't know where your from but here we have free clinics that'll get you birth control without having to have your parents with you..I had my first baby when I was 14 and he even pulled out..your right if you think your ready your going to do it no m...
  
  
• getting fingered
  I'm not a guy but I have been with women and it's great down there..if your really worried about the smell douche or use some babyoil..if he wants to finger you he must like it so let him it feels awesome if he knows what he's doing
  
  
• life
  to be honest with you when I turned 18 I ddn't really feel to different from being 17..I'm 25 do I really need to tell you that if they're living under your roof HELL NO they can't do whatever they want..you do need to just trust in the way that you ra...
  
  
• Sexual position (girl on top)
  oh my..I hope your not worrying about pleasing the same boyfriend who throws ex's in your face lol..when your on top its more rocking back and forth then bouncing..your not a nascar driver so start out nice and slow..let him put his hands on your hips ...
  
  
• Why does he talk about his ex's in front of me
  well first off he sounds very immature..it sounds like he is very insecure and wants you to act all jealous just to let him know that you want him..men talk about us woman being confusing..PLEASE!!..I'd tell him that if he really cares about you and ho...
  
  
• Where is this relationship going... what is wrong with me!?
  Well first off I'm a woman and believe or not when a guy is as intense as you that is a huge turn off to us..If you don't back off some your going to push her away before you even can give her a chance to love you about the shyness..in the begining ...