15, pregnant and proud of it
If he is listed as the baby's father on the birth certificate, the government will put him in jail, whether you or your family want them to or not. That is what happened to my cousin and her boy. He has to register as a sex offender now, and he isn't...
Is this mono?
Symptoms usually begin to appear 4 to 7 weeks after infection with the virus. Signs that you may have mono include:
* constant fatigue
* fever
* sore throat
* loss of appetite
* swollen lymph nodes (commonly called glands, lo...
When will I get my period?
I wouldn't worry too much about it, I got my period when I was 8, but my sister didn't get hers til she was 17. It depends on your body mostly. And you wont necessarily get it when you get boobs, whoever told you that is a lil off. If it doesn't co...
How do you get past overprotective parents?
Before becoming sexual with your um, "man", consider the consequences. Do you know EXACTLY where that thing has been? Do you know everything about protection? Condoms do break, and pregnancy happens, ask my 32 year old sister with a 17 year old son....
Hair dye help
My hair is all different colors! Blonde red brown...It looks kinda cool, but it's not me!
Have you ever wanted to be the opposite gender?
I have, just to know what it would be like. It's toadly weird to even think about, but I would love to switch places with my boyfriend for a day!
I hate my girlfriend's friend
Well, sweetie, all you can do is explain to your girl that you want some alone time with her. Make sure that she knows when you will be hanging out with her so she tells her friend before hand. Let her know that you do not like this girl, and explain...
I hate my girlfriend's friend
Then you have to help her. Maybe she has a bad home life, have you asked her? Just try to be nice to her. I know what a bad family life can do to a person's emotions. I promise, she really won't be that bad if you just ask her how her day is going,...
Runaway or kill myself?
I was in the exact situation that you are in. I still am with the family part. But you can't let them get to you. NOTHING is worth killing yourself, I know because I have tried. I woke up to my 5 month old nephew laying beside me and I realized tha...
Violent parents, how will this impact me?
People say that you will go to extremes either way. My father is abusive and plays favorites with his children because his parents were like that, but my mother was beaten by her father all the time and she could never EVER hit us. So I guess it just...
I hate my girlfriend's friend
Ah, high school. The four years of Hell where nobody likes each other unless they act, dress, and talk a certain way. Glad to be away from that! Do you not get that the way you look at this girl is the same way you accuse her of looking at you? Cli...
Love?
Depends. If both of you are legal adults, then it's fine. If not, then no. I agree with the "age is just a number" philosophy as long as nobody goes to jail.
Should I say something about still liking him?(100.00%)
That's a chance you will have to take to try for what you want. He may say no, but, hey, you tried. But just explain to him that you would rather be just friends than nothing at all. Good luck and funmail me if you need more help.
Should I let him?
No! Don't let him run your life. Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. And make sure he understands that. And if he keeps bugging you, there are plenty of guys out there who won't. Good luck.
Royally screwed at the end of the year
I'm sure you will see her over summer break. And if not, and you like her that much, you can wait until school starts. It may be hard but you can do it. Hope all goes well for you.
Confused, do you think she still likes me?(100.00%)
If you feel that she didn't care for you, then you didn't screw up by ending it. And yes she will probably try to make you jealous, and yes, JUST IGNORE HER. It will be easier, but if you want a new girl, by all means, if she has moved on, go for it....
Purity ring
Nothing but break your father's heart. My friends father gave her a purity ring, and she broke that promise and ended up pregnant, though she swore she was careful. Her father refused to help her out in any way and they don't speak to this day. My f...
Is there a problem with this marriage plan?
I have known people to be engaged a LOT longer than that. No there is nothing wrong with showing that level of commitment, but waiting to get married. I think that is a very smart way to go about it. Good Luck.
Please help with boyfriend problems
If my boyfriend cheated on me twice I would dump him, and we've been together 5 years! Once I could see letting it slide if you really care for him, but once is even pushing it! There is no way I would still be with a guy that cheated on me five time...
Not sure if my sister is ready for this baby
I think you should have thought about this before now. It's a little late to talk to her now. And I doubt she would listen anyway, not because she doesn't care what you say, but because she probably really wants this baby. The best thing you can do ...
I'm pregnant and 13
First of all, having sex at your age doesn't seem like a good idea anymore does it? This is something you should have thought about before you had sex. Next, you have to tell your parents. There really is no way around it. You have two options. Ab...
Should I get the Morning after pill before we have sex?(100.00%)
Do you know, HONESTLY KNOW EXACTLY where that pen*s has been? If the answer is NO then DO NOT have sex without a condom. He's an A$$ to even suggest sex without a condom, because it is very dangerous. angelfire is right, if he does have ANY STD, you...
Chances of getting pregnant if he pulls out but cums on vulva?
Pre cum can come out at anytime during sex and contains at least 3 sperm. So pulling out isn't protecting you from anything, pregnancy, std's...they're all still possible with the "pulling out" method. And honestly, the only person to have to ask thi...
Heartbroken and Pregnant(100.00%)
The best advice anyone could give you is to move back to where your family is from. And if he doesn't want to willingly help with the baby, sue him for child support. He sounds like a real loser and you should kick him to the curb. You don't deserve...
Should I tell parents and friends I'm bi?(100.00%)
Keeping it a secret is only hurting you. The people that really care for you will be able to accept you no matter what you choose to do or who you choose to be. The people who can't accept you, aren't the people I would want to call my "friend" Good...
What do you think of guys masturbating?
Hey, I think it's better than them having s*x with someone else! As long as he doesn't do it too much, don't worry about it...
Could I still get pregnant if we had sex in the pool?
Yeah...Sperm can leak out of the p*nis any time during sex. If you don't know to take all the necessary precautions, and don't fully understand how everything works, don't have sex. You'll only be hurting yourself. Chlorine probably does kill sperm,...
Anyone else think abortions are sick?(0.00%)
Abortion is wrong and disgusting and there is nothing that will change my mind about that. I honestly do not see how anyone can have that done, they are killing a part of themselves. A baby is half it's mother and half it's father and anyone who can...
Possibilities of being pregnant?
Wow...If you're too young to understand where semen has to go to fertilize an egg, you are WAY too young to be having ANY kind of sex. Grow up a little bit before trying to ruin your life.
Piercings, do they really hurt?
I've had my tongue done twice and only felt a little pinch. You don't have very may nerves in the middle of your tongue so it really doesn't hurt.
If I keep telling myself something is going to happen, will it?
Unless you have magical powers, chances are that it won't work...You need to try and fix all the problems you may have with yourself. I used to be very insecure, for many reasons. But I got out, found some friends that accepted me for me and I never ...
My bestfriend got a girlfriend
That is something you will have to deal with when you're "just friends" with a guy. You need to get used to it, because it'll still be happening when you're 20, I promise. If you don't like him, the it really shouldn't bother you. Either learn to liv...
Sex education.
Teachers aren't allowed to go that far into sex ed. Conception, periods, STD's, and the parts of the anatomy are all they are legally allowed to cover in sex ed. That is going over board!
Irregular period, how to regulate it?
nothing but take birth control...so many things can interrupt your period and mess with the regularity. Stress, weight fluctuations, diet, exercise, sleep patterns...It sucks being a girl. It'll come when it wants to. But if it doesn't for more than...
I'm 13, but why is it so bad to have a baby?
I wouldn't say it's BAD to have a baby at your age, it's just not smart. In history, girls your age were married and had children. But these days kids aren't conditioned for that anymore, they've been kept home and taken care of by their parents and...
Better sex?
Communication is the key. You have to tell him what you like in order for him to do it (He's a guy, he won't get the message if you don't). Try role-playing games, sexy costumes and stuff like that to spice up your love life. Good luck and be safe
Im the other woman
Knowing that you are the other woman should eat at you from the inside out...if it doesn't, there's something wrong. You need to think of the things that you're doing and ask yourself "IS this something I would want my child doing?" or "Is this someth...
Birth control pills
The shot is NO GOOD...I had to take the shot because I ave high blood preasure, but I gained SOOO much weight because of it, It made me sick, caused muscle cramps, and (nobody told me this until AFTER I took it) it can make you sterile and possibly cau...
How long & who first?
If your talking just a peck (and the fact that that's all you're thinking about, is highly commendable!) you don't have to wait too long...And if your experience is anything like mine, you'll have to make the first move, or it'll take him forever to g...
my daughters boyfreind
You can tell her you don't want her to have sex, but I promise you, it won't work...I know...I'm not being rude, but being a teenage girl, and being around them, I can honestly tell you that 99.999% of the teens who are having sex, have had the talks a...
please HELP AGAIN!!!
It could be anything...but sometime your stomach will hurt after sex because the muscles get so tense in there...I'm glad you were careful, but you're still a lil bit young for that...just tbe sure you always have a condom handy, because if your boy ge...
need help
I'd really consider the consequences first...if you think you could live with yourself afterward, I guess go for it...but the guilt would eat at me for the rest of my life...just be careful
Can I get pregnant if I'm on my period(0.00%)
you can get pregnant anytime that sperm enters the vagina...be more careful, and more educated next time you have sex...
Is it embarrassing to lose your virginity?
The first time is the hardest, and yes, buy condoms please before you even THINK about having sex...My sister had her first child when she was 15 and my nephew thinks my parents are his parents...I wouldn't want you to go through that...
When you do...
cutiepie88's Advice page 4
If he is listed as the baby's father on the birth certificate, the government will put him in jail, whether you or your family want them to or not. That is what happened to my cousin and her boy. He has to register as a sex offender now, and he isn't...
Symptoms usually begin to appear 4 to 7 weeks after infection with the virus. Signs that you may have mono include: * constant fatigue * fever * sore throat * loss of appetite * swollen lymph nodes (commonly called glands, lo...
I wouldn't worry too much about it, I got my period when I was 8, but my sister didn't get hers til she was 17. It depends on your body mostly. And you wont necessarily get it when you get boobs, whoever told you that is a lil off. If it doesn't co...
Before becoming sexual with your um, "man", consider the consequences. Do you know EXACTLY where that thing has been? Do you know everything about protection? Condoms do break, and pregnancy happens, ask my 32 year old sister with a 17 year old son....
My hair is all different colors! Blonde red brown...It looks kinda cool, but it's not me!
I have, just to know what it would be like. It's toadly weird to even think about, but I would love to switch places with my boyfriend for a day!
You are very welcome...
Well, sweetie, all you can do is explain to your girl that you want some alone time with her. Make sure that she knows when you will be hanging out with her so she tells her friend before hand. Let her know that you do not like this girl, and explain...
Then you have to help her. Maybe she has a bad home life, have you asked her? Just try to be nice to her. I know what a bad family life can do to a person's emotions. I promise, she really won't be that bad if you just ask her how her day is going,...
I was in the exact situation that you are in. I still am with the family part. But you can't let them get to you. NOTHING is worth killing yourself, I know because I have tried. I woke up to my 5 month old nephew laying beside me and I realized tha...
People say that you will go to extremes either way. My father is abusive and plays favorites with his children because his parents were like that, but my mother was beaten by her father all the time and she could never EVER hit us. So I guess it just...
Ah, high school. The four years of Hell where nobody likes each other unless they act, dress, and talk a certain way. Glad to be away from that! Do you not get that the way you look at this girl is the same way you accuse her of looking at you? Cli...
Depends. If both of you are legal adults, then it's fine. If not, then no. I agree with the "age is just a number" philosophy as long as nobody goes to jail.
That's a chance you will have to take to try for what you want. He may say no, but, hey, you tried. But just explain to him that you would rather be just friends than nothing at all. Good luck and funmail me if you need more help.
It means he likes you. You should date him...That is really cute!
No! Don't let him run your life. Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. And make sure he understands that. And if he keeps bugging you, there are plenty of guys out there who won't. Good luck.
I'm sure you will see her over summer break. And if not, and you like her that much, you can wait until school starts. It may be hard but you can do it. Hope all goes well for you.
If you feel that she didn't care for you, then you didn't screw up by ending it. And yes she will probably try to make you jealous, and yes, JUST IGNORE HER. It will be easier, but if you want a new girl, by all means, if she has moved on, go for it....
Nothing but break your father's heart. My friends father gave her a purity ring, and she broke that promise and ended up pregnant, though she swore she was careful. Her father refused to help her out in any way and they don't speak to this day. My f...
I have known people to be engaged a LOT longer than that. No there is nothing wrong with showing that level of commitment, but waiting to get married. I think that is a very smart way to go about it. Good Luck.
If my boyfriend cheated on me twice I would dump him, and we've been together 5 years! Once I could see letting it slide if you really care for him, but once is even pushing it! There is no way I would still be with a guy that cheated on me five time...
I see no problem with age as long as both partners are legal, lol.
I think you should have thought about this before now. It's a little late to talk to her now. And I doubt she would listen anyway, not because she doesn't care what you say, but because she probably really wants this baby. The best thing you can do ...
First of all, having sex at your age doesn't seem like a good idea anymore does it? This is something you should have thought about before you had sex. Next, you have to tell your parents. There really is no way around it. You have two options. Ab...
Do you know, HONESTLY KNOW EXACTLY where that pen*s has been? If the answer is NO then DO NOT have sex without a condom. He's an A$$ to even suggest sex without a condom, because it is very dangerous. angelfire is right, if he does have ANY STD, you...
Pre cum can come out at anytime during sex and contains at least 3 sperm. So pulling out isn't protecting you from anything, pregnancy, std's...they're all still possible with the "pulling out" method. And honestly, the only person to have to ask thi...
The best advice anyone could give you is to move back to where your family is from. And if he doesn't want to willingly help with the baby, sue him for child support. He sounds like a real loser and you should kick him to the curb. You don't deserve...
Everyone does that. My boyfriend and I do it all the time.
Keeping it a secret is only hurting you. The people that really care for you will be able to accept you no matter what you choose to do or who you choose to be. The people who can't accept you, aren't the people I would want to call my "friend" Good...
Hey, I think it's better than them having s*x with someone else! As long as he doesn't do it too much, don't worry about it...
Yeah...Sperm can leak out of the p*nis any time during sex. If you don't know to take all the necessary precautions, and don't fully understand how everything works, don't have sex. You'll only be hurting yourself. Chlorine probably does kill sperm,...
Abortion is wrong and disgusting and there is nothing that will change my mind about that. I honestly do not see how anyone can have that done, they are killing a part of themselves. A baby is half it's mother and half it's father and anyone who can...
If it's important to you, tell them. If they care about you they won't think you're mental. Good Luck.
Wow...If you're too young to understand where semen has to go to fertilize an egg, you are WAY too young to be having ANY kind of sex. Grow up a little bit before trying to ruin your life.
I've had my tongue done twice and only felt a little pinch. You don't have very may nerves in the middle of your tongue so it really doesn't hurt.
Unless you have magical powers, chances are that it won't work...You need to try and fix all the problems you may have with yourself. I used to be very insecure, for many reasons. But I got out, found some friends that accepted me for me and I never ...
That is something you will have to deal with when you're "just friends" with a guy. You need to get used to it, because it'll still be happening when you're 20, I promise. If you don't like him, the it really shouldn't bother you. Either learn to liv...
Teachers aren't allowed to go that far into sex ed. Conception, periods, STD's, and the parts of the anatomy are all they are legally allowed to cover in sex ed. That is going over board!
nothing but take birth control...so many things can interrupt your period and mess with the regularity. Stress, weight fluctuations, diet, exercise, sleep patterns...It sucks being a girl. It'll come when it wants to. But if it doesn't for more than...
I wouldn't say it's BAD to have a baby at your age, it's just not smart. In history, girls your age were married and had children. But these days kids aren't conditioned for that anymore, they've been kept home and taken care of by their parents and...
Communication is the key. You have to tell him what you like in order for him to do it (He's a guy, he won't get the message if you don't). Try role-playing games, sexy costumes and stuff like that to spice up your love life. Good luck and be safe
Knowing that you are the other woman should eat at you from the inside out...if it doesn't, there's something wrong. You need to think of the things that you're doing and ask yourself "IS this something I would want my child doing?" or "Is this someth...
nope
The shot is NO GOOD...I had to take the shot because I ave high blood preasure, but I gained SOOO much weight because of it, It made me sick, caused muscle cramps, and (nobody told me this until AFTER I took it) it can make you sterile and possibly cau...
If your talking just a peck (and the fact that that's all you're thinking about, is highly commendable!) you don't have to wait too long...And if your experience is anything like mine, you'll have to make the first move, or it'll take him forever to g...
You can tell her you don't want her to have sex, but I promise you, it won't work...I know...I'm not being rude, but being a teenage girl, and being around them, I can honestly tell you that 99.999% of the teens who are having sex, have had the talks a...
It could be anything...but sometime your stomach will hurt after sex because the muscles get so tense in there...I'm glad you were careful, but you're still a lil bit young for that...just tbe sure you always have a condom handy, because if your boy ge...
I'd really consider the consequences first...if you think you could live with yourself afterward, I guess go for it...but the guilt would eat at me for the rest of my life...just be careful
you can get pregnant anytime that sperm enters the vagina...be more careful, and more educated next time you have sex...
The first time is the hardest, and yes, buy condoms please before you even THINK about having sex...My sister had her first child when she was 15 and my nephew thinks my parents are his parents...I wouldn't want you to go through that... When you do...