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cutiepie88's Advice
If he is listed as the baby's father on the birth certificate, the government will put him in jail, whether you or your family want them to or not. That is what happened to my cousin and her boy. He has to register as a sex offender now, and he isn't...
Symptoms usually begin to appear 4 to 7 weeks after infection with the virus. Signs that you may have mono include: * constant fatigue * fever * sore throat * loss of appetite * swollen lymph nodes (commonly called glands, lo...
I wouldn't worry too much about it, I got my period when I was 8, but my sister didn't get hers til she was 17. It depends on your body mostly. And you wont necessarily get it when you get boobs, whoever told you that is a lil off. If it doesn't co...
Before becoming sexual with your um, "man", consider the consequences. Do you know EXACTLY where that thing has been? Do you know everything about protection? Condoms do break, and pregnancy happens, ask my 32 year old sister with a 17 year old son....
My hair is all different colors! Blonde red brown...It looks kinda cool, but it's not me!
I have, just to know what it would be like. It's toadly weird to even think about, but I would love to switch places with my boyfriend for a day!
You are very welcome...
Well, sweetie, all you can do is explain to your girl that you want some alone time with her. Make sure that she knows when you will be hanging out with her so she tells her friend before hand. Let her know that you do not like this girl, and explain...
Then you have to help her. Maybe she has a bad home life, have you asked her? Just try to be nice to her. I know what a bad family life can do to a person's emotions. I promise, she really won't be that bad if you just ask her how her day is going,...
I was in the exact situation that you are in. I still am with the family part. But you can't let them get to you. NOTHING is worth killing yourself, I know because I have tried. I woke up to my 5 month old nephew laying beside me and I realized tha...
People say that you will go to extremes either way. My father is abusive and plays favorites with his children because his parents were like that, but my mother was beaten by her father all the time and she could never EVER hit us. So I guess it just...
Ah, high school. The four years of Hell where nobody likes each other unless they act, dress, and talk a certain way. Glad to be away from that! Do you not get that the way you look at this girl is the same way you accuse her of looking at you? Cli...
Depends. If both of you are legal adults, then it's fine. If not, then no. I agree with the "age is just a number" philosophy as long as nobody goes to jail.
That's a chance you will have to take to try for what you want. He may say no, but, hey, you tried. But just explain to him that you would rather be just friends than nothing at all. Good luck and funmail me if you need more help.
It means he likes you. You should date him...That is really cute!
No! Don't let him run your life. Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. And make sure he understands that. And if he keeps bugging you, there are plenty of guys out there who won't. Good luck.
I'm sure you will see her over summer break. And if not, and you like her that much, you can wait until school starts. It may be hard but you can do it. Hope all goes well for you.
If you feel that she didn't care for you, then you didn't screw up by ending it. And yes she will probably try to make you jealous, and yes, JUST IGNORE HER. It will be easier, but if you want a new girl, by all means, if she has moved on, go for it....
Nothing but break your father's heart. My friends father gave her a purity ring, and she broke that promise and ended up pregnant, though she swore she was careful. Her father refused to help her out in any way and they don't speak to this day. My f...
I have known people to be engaged a LOT longer than that. No there is nothing wrong with showing that level of commitment, but waiting to get married. I think that is a very smart way to go about it. Good Luck.
If my boyfriend cheated on me twice I would dump him, and we've been together 5 years! Once I could see letting it slide if you really care for him, but once is even pushing it! There is no way I would still be with a guy that cheated on me five time...
I see no problem with age as long as both partners are legal, lol.
I think you should have thought about this before now. It's a little late to talk to her now. And I doubt she would listen anyway, not because she doesn't care what you say, but because she probably really wants this baby. The best thing you can do ...
First of all, having sex at your age doesn't seem like a good idea anymore does it? This is something you should have thought about before you had sex. Next, you have to tell your parents. There really is no way around it. You have two options. Ab...
Do you know, HONESTLY KNOW EXACTLY where that pen*s has been? If the answer is NO then DO NOT have sex without a condom. He's an A$$ to even suggest sex without a condom, because it is very dangerous. angelfire is right, if he does have ANY STD, you...
Pre cum can come out at anytime during sex and contains at least 3 sperm. So pulling out isn't protecting you from anything, pregnancy, std's...they're all still possible with the "pulling out" method. And honestly, the only person to have to ask thi...
The best advice anyone could give you is to move back to where your family is from. And if he doesn't want to willingly help with the baby, sue him for child support. He sounds like a real loser and you should kick him to the curb. You don't deserve...
Everyone does that. My boyfriend and I do it all the time.
Keeping it a secret is only hurting you. The people that really care for you will be able to accept you no matter what you choose to do or who you choose to be. The people who can't accept you, aren't the people I would want to call my "friend" Good...
Hey, I think it's better than them having s*x with someone else! As long as he doesn't do it too much, don't worry about it...