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  • Should the penis go in slowly or with little force?
    Slowly, make sure the guy is patient and gentle.

  • Is porn really harmful?
    Because they get an unrealistic view of sex...a real sexual relationship is not like the way it looks in porn.

  • Swelling in the face?
    My mom has the same problem, although she swells up more in her legs and feet. Her face swells when she eats a lot of sodium...make sure that you cut it almost completely out of your diet. There are websites (for people with kidney failure) that have...

  • Cold Sores...
    Tea tree oil...use the cream. My daughter gets cold sores and this clears them up within a day, although we put it on as soon as she gets the red mark before the blister comes out. Once the blister comes out it takes about 2-3 days to clear it up. H...

  • I need help.
    I think that you can do a LOT better than him. You're pregnant, you do not need to worry about what your boyfriend is doing or *who he is doing*. If he wants to be with you then why would he give some other girl a chance? Stand up for yourself and y...

  • Is cows milk better than follow on milk for my 15 month son?
    Cow's milk is recommended for children when they turn 1. Whole milk is best because 1 year olds need the fat from it for their brain development. All 3 of my kids drank whole milk when they were 1...they still do now. As for your sister...tell h...

  • Can you get Pregnant if I've been on BirthControl for almost 2week
    It takes one full cycle (30 days) for birth control pills to be FULLY effective. Most likely you would be ok but there is a greater chance if you don't wait the for your full cycle to end. As for getting pregnant on birth control...there is that 1% c...

  • Am I dumb did I pass up a good chance
    I think that she was trying to be nice since her mom is dating your dad. As for her being black...so what? She's a person with feelings just like you are and skin color doesn't matter when you fall in love (actually to me skin color doesn't matter a...

  • How is it that you delete a question? (100.00%)
    If you don't want the question associated with you anymore all you have to do is mark it anonymous. You can't delete your questions, only advisors and admin can delete them. If you could some users would abuse this by deleting questions that got an...

  • I need advice here
    You should stick with what you know...what will happen to you if you're caught. Tell him NO, just because he wants to doesn't mean that you have to. And what a family tradition to have...can you imagine sitting around the table at dinner talking ab...

  • Help I want to go into labor
    With all 3 of my children I threw up at least 10-15 times a day, everyday. I had migraines, Toxemia and Gestational diabetes, pressure and pain from my ribs down to my groin from the 34th week and on. My oldest was turned backwards and pushed constan...

  • Teens sex queries
    No you should not. You're married, you should not be teaching anyone about sex or masturbation with a hands on technique. You should also not be tucking him back into his pants. I agree with question01...he's using you and you're letting him. Stop ...

  • Cyst in right ovary
    Go for the surgery...there are health risks to letting it there for too long. As for conceiving, anything is possible and you do have another ovary that will keep producing eggs so having a baby will still be possible.

  • Am I prego? (100.00%)
    I doubt that you're pregnant since you took the morning after pill but, NEVER LET HIM DO THAT AGAIN.

  • is 14 and 21 too big of an age difference?
    You shouldn't do anything about it. 7 years is not that big of an age difference when BOTH of the people involved are above the age of consent. But when one of them is under it then you end up with problems. If the relationship turns sexual (in any ...

  • my first time
    If his penis went inside of your vagina then you had sex...you lost your virginity.

  • Anyone else?
    Honestly I think she's more for the younger crowd. I work in an elementary school and most of the girls there like her. My daughter who is 5 absolutely loves her. She targets to a younger audience.

  • My little girl wants to visit her mother. (100.00%)
    Yes, if the mother is going to welcome her and if the mother is allowed to see her. If the courts ordered that she can't see her then you would be breaking a court order. If the mother is just going to be mean to her and turn her away then it would b...

  • Will my boobs get bigger or smaller if I were a bra to bed
    Wearing a bra to bed does not affect the size of your breasts. It also doesn't make them loose or saggy, all it does is irritate you. Bra's are supposed to support your breasts, they do not help them grow.

  • Where Can I buy MIDOL??(for girls)
    Drug Store, Walmart, Grocery stores...anywhere that sells medicine normally.

  • Early Labor
    I completely agree with ichibanarky. I have 3 kids and my doctor pushed for me to get to at least 37 weeks. Before 37 weeks babies can have problems that doctors can't anticipate, their lungs are not even fully developed yet. Keeping that baby in...

  • Do they eat it or not??
    Where most people are from that means he's a pedophile...21 year old men should not be interested in 15 year old girls. He's interested in you because he thinks you'll be an easy mark...someone he can use. Be careful, there are so many men on the i...

  • What does orgasm mean ? (100.00%)
    If you don't even know what an orgasm is then you shouldn't be having sex.

  • I used to be ___, but im not anymore
    trusting

  • I'm panicking I'm pregnant. HELP!
    Birth control pills can make your breasts tender and mess with your appetite, that is normal. As for the "baby bump"...even if you were pregnant you would not have that yet, it's way too early. Normally that doesn't happen till around 3 months. Mo...

  • Today me and my mom got in a argument over nothin
    No I don't think you should run away. You said that you fix problems with your family by yourself...you're going to have to fix this the same way. Running away is never a solution to a problem, it's the cowards way out. Maybe your mom was just hav...

  • Are you still a virgin if you have anal sex?
    Yes you're still a virgin. Virginity is ONLY lost when a penis enters your vagina and breaks your hymen...not when you have anal sex.

  • I want to have sex with him now, but I'm not sure if I should.
    You're questioning yourself...that right there should give you your answer. No you shouldn't have sex. You should only have it when you're100% sure that it's what you really what, when your 100% sure that you can deal with and live with the consequen...

  • Small nipples
    No, any size nipples will be able to feed a baby. I also had (notice I said had) small nipples. When I breast fed my oldest they got bigger.

  • Why do some people think teens can't fall in love (100.00%)
    I don't think that you're too young to fall in love...anybody can fall in love at any time or age in their life. I think what these people are trying to say is that...if you haven't experienced life outside of school then you're not ready for a grown ...

  • A Bad Thing???
    Personally I think that it's a bad idea. If she has a boyfriend then why does she need to get to know the guy better? And how do you get to know someone at the movies? You can't talk and it's dark...hm, sounds like they're getting to know each other...

  • Scared
    I can honestly tell you from experience that it's hard and will take time. The best thing your boyfriend can do is to go slow and have lots of patience with you. Go as far as you can with him and then when you get uncomfortable have him stop...over t...

  • Not consistent with birth control pills...
    Yes there's a chance...you need to take them at the same time everyday. It's important to do that. If you don't have a continuous supply of the hormones from them then you could ovulate and therefore end up pregnant.

  • Period
    You don't necessarily have to have your period but to stop it you would need to have a continuous supply of hormones...like the kind from birth control pills. If you don't want a period every month then talk to your doctor, there are birth control pil...

  • Pregnant girlfriend (100.00%)
    She would NOT be having symptoms after only a week. It takes the fertilized egg 3-7 days to even attach to her uterus, symptoms don't happen for at least 1 month. Most likely she's stressing out and tricking her body into thinking it's pregnant. W...

  • what it me when clear stuuf comes out when you wipe??
    Most likely it's just discharge...this is perfectly normal. Your vagina is a self cleaning muscle and the discharge is it's way of cleaning itself.

  • Do I still have my v-card? (100.00%)
    Yes you are still a virgin. You lose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse...vaginally.

  • Should I have sex or not?
    If you have to ask then no, you're not ready. Wait until you know for sure that it's what you want...wait until you don't question yourself anymore.

  • Can you be pregnant and get negative blood and urine test results?
    Most likely you were pregnant and had a chemical miscarriage, that's why you had a positive on the first 4 tests (every pregnancy test I took with my 3 kids was always very faint) and now a negative on the blood test. It's not normal for blood tests t...

  • Will the hospital keep me in until I go into labor or send me home?
    Depends on if you're having contractions or just pain. Have they told you that you're high risk? If they have then they might keep you there. If you're not having contractions they will probably send you home but it all depends on the hospital.

  • Was it right or wrong to call in sick?
    I was a manager in a grocery store for 7 years, believe me when I say that if you had a fever last night and it only went away when you took ibuprofen you would not of been wanted at work. I would of told my employees to take the day off to get better...

  • 7 lbs at 36 weeks???
    My daughter was 7lbs at 37 weeks...I had gestational diabetes which they say makes a baby bigger. At 38 weeks they induced me and she weighed 7lbs 3oz. She didn't gain weight like they thought she would in that one week. If she starts getting too bi...

  • Is it true that sperm dies once it hits the air?
    It doesn't die right away. But eventually it will die.

  • My husband's sperm cell
    It's perfectly normal for some of the semen to come back out, after all your vagina (which is a muscle) pushes out your own discharge so it would naturally push out some of his semen...however...as soon as his sperm get in there they go to work. They ...

  • My parents are too overprotective!! (100.00%)
    You live in their house you live by their rules...is it fair? No, but you're the child and they get to make the rules. You say that you only wanted 3 things but those 3 things are pretty big requests. Getting a pet is a big responsibility that may...

  • Worms!
    You have to have it treated...you need to go to the doctor.

  • Which one do girls like better squirting orgasms or not squirting?
    Since the majority of girls do NOT squirt I would have to say that they just like having an orgasm.

  • Am I gay.
    Are you asking if your gay because you like your gay teacher...who is a man and you're a girl? Um, no. If you're a girl then you would not be gay. Being gay (or lesbian for females) means that you like someone of the same sex as you.

  • how do you have sex with a girl without poppingher cherry
    You can't have sexual intercourse with a girl without popping her cherry. If she has sex then she's no longer a virgin and her hymen would tear...in other words you would pop her cherry.

  • does age really matter?.
    Age only matters in a legal aspect or if the other person is very young and being taken advantage of. If you're having a sexual relationship then he could get into trouble with the law and have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life if...

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