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cky283's Advice
If you are truly unhappy, contact social services, because you seem to have a sweet sensitive nature and you dont deserve to be brought up in such misery. I wish the best for you, don't worry...years from now you will be on your own, making your own...
of course it will happen when the time is right, dont go out looking for love, let love find you
Gotta be a bit more specific to get some good responses. It depends on how long yall were together, yalls chemistry, and how it ended. If my ex wanted me back right now, I'd take her back in a heartbeat Hopefully things will work out for you, ...
kissing on the neck, grinding
If she said she loved you, and slept with her ex because she ''still loves him'' is that really worth going after? I know its hard to hear but thats gonna lead straight into heart ache. I dunno about you, but I'd like to have a girlfriend that I cou...
Girls are confusing, thats like her saying ''Stop trying to contact me or I will never talk to you again!"
I feel ya, some people feel the need to connect with another person in a relatonship in order to be happy, I'm the same way. I hate being single, back in highschool I usually always had a girlfriend, now it's just...rare Just hold in there, keep ...
I wish I could tell you an exact way to get over it... But I know staying busy helps, it doesn't give you time to really think about it. Just hang out with some friends, take some interest in new hobbies or enjoy old ones, talk to people, make it se...
My bestfriend (recent ex) liked/loved me for 2 years while she was there for me while I was getting out of another relationship. We became bestfriends and it felt it would be best to just go for it, because at that point I did like her, and I knew she ...
Does he not go hang out with you or work too much? Don't let it bother you, sometimes in relationships when things start to feel different, you start to think of many scenarios that usually are inaccurate, and it eats you up inside. Hopefully it...
How long were the two of you in a relationship? And it depends on what terms it ended on. I can say one thing and thats try not to make it obvious, if the two of you are on a friend level still then just be friends. If its meant to be, it will...
Michael Jackson - One more Chance Phil Collins - Against all odds gah, I dunno I like the MJ one, it fits my breakup quite well
Communication, talk about problems in a calm environment and to where it wont cause an argument... people who trully love one another are willing to talk about problems and meet eachother halfway.
There you go... I'm gonna be blunt I find it odd that you would want to date a guy who has already cheated on his current girlfriend with other girls, as well as you. This guy is obviously saying whatever he can to get a peice of a*s. Guy...
I know what you mean...its hard to move on, it really is. They say just stay busy, an idle mind with make you think about things you dont need to. Go out do stuff, pick up a hobby, write poetry, draw...whatever makes you happy do it..spend time w...
Keep letting yourself be noticed, if its anything, he will ''man up'' eventually
play hard to get, kinda hint that you have a thing for him, but dont wait for him to notice like that...gotta step up and let yourself be known
I hope you feel better man, there was nothing you could do about it. We cant really say who goes to heaven, but I would like to believe so, they are as pure and innocent as they come. I would ask a more spiritual site, or goto the ''regligion a...
- I like non-virgins, because it shows the girl is pure, but if she was in love with the guy and whatnot when she lost it, then its fine -tight or just a little, as long as it isn't LOOSE -uhh...for that last one...get into it. If the guy is having s...
depends on how close yall are if yall are flirty and attracted to one another then put your arm around her and gently stroke her arm, neck, upper chest, then get close..BUT DONT RUSH. If she is into your notion she will not stop you, but some girls...
Thats the problem with dating guys who are friends or let alone related. Causes too much confusion. It also depends on what age group you are talking about
It makes perfect sense, my recent ex broke up with me because she HELD IN all this stuff about things I needed to say to let her know how much I loved her, even though I thought she should have felt it. Trust me, tell him, whats the worst that can h...
shouldn't be flirty if he already has a girlfriend :-p
I've been there before man. I've had two girlfriends I wanted to spend my life with...one is now married with two children, and the other...is being stuipid (recent) Since things are going so well, let it continue to grow...to satisfy your needs...
first of all congratulations if you know him well enough, you should know what he likes. last month me and my ex (I know its funny) went to the beach and stayed together for 3 days. Anything from the heart will do, guys are simple to please....
love will find a way, give it time
I've had similar cases with ex's...girls work in mysterious ways...such as stress and other things that affect it. If it was your first time, then you are adjusting... I'm really no doctor but just goto a walk in clinic and find out for sure bett...
I doubt he is engaged at that age, unless the girl he is with is prego. No idea why he would be texting YOU telling you that out of nowhere. Don't worry, my first love from highschool is now married with two kids...life just moves on... as th...
It's an odd fetish...I dont have ANY but...I dunno you will love this person during flu season
what ever yall do together that bores you, avoid that unless its how he acts...gotta be more specific :D
my recent ex liked/loved me for a year and half before we even started dating I called her to confide and get my mind off of the pain from a breakup and she was always there for me, we built a strong friendship and it turned into love...
one time I was really bored and made a profile on some crappy site that you had to actually do surveys to use the site.. anyway I had a profile, didnt pay attention to it much, I would check my e-mails and it would notify me if anybody sent me anyth...
-games -guitar -phone chat -hang out with people -draw -movie -watch tv series -cook something different -message an old friend I dunno...
Talking...straight up If in my recent breakup, if things were talked about when they needed to mentioned...we would still be happily together never hold anything back, let your heart flow you never know if you never try
You shouldnt have ask what love is, its what you feel for yourself. How would you describe yalls friendship? There must be times when yall act close for you to have grown these feelings...or perhaps you were drawn to them on several levels. My e...
if you think its normal, it is and I doubt you are the ONLY girl what licks her fingers after. People do what they want, to get them off. If its natural for you, then thats great...who knows, some guys might actually like that kinda stuff.
FLIRT BACK yeah...if she likes it and stays flirty...then you got magic
Pissing onto another person it's gross...and I DONT know from personal experience
sweet fruits... bananas, apples, kiwi, pineapple...all that stuff
if she slept with other people, id say so...but thats definately not the case. It's just to get her mind off our drama, she drinks, and feels she can confide in a worthless excuse for a human being because he is all talk. gah...that would be wro...
For me...I dunno. Outgoing, easy to talk to...serious when needed. Of course being cute and having a nice smile helps.
nothing worse than people trying to SPEAK FOR GOD I am Catholic and I strongly believe in God but some of you people take it way to far, and make it seem like yall cant do ANYTHING for fun I guess smoking cigs is a sin because it harms your body...
I dunno, but parents like that usually over protect their kids and when the kids grow up they go wild and just wanna live life to the fullest...even if it means sleeping around..blah..thats only a few girls i know though Parents like that bug the cr...
The last thing you want is a co-worker relationship. What good is it to hurt yalls loved ones behind their backs just for the benefit of some other person going inside of you? Everybody finds out sooner or later, you say you have a great future ahea...
go rough....rougher than before i guess i just like girls who like aggressive guys being assertive when it came to that stuff. Even biteing gets some people going.
Well when you go get the birth control,they will tell you all that...better to ask a professional. It will all be confidential
trim it......i mean damn...don't want a wookie down there. Porn star secret: Shaving makes it look bigger haha..the days of watching howard stern
The kid learned how to spell love a few years ago and now god wants you to be with him? It's called free will, look it up. The boy has barely been in the 2 digit ages..you are a teenager. And no..in fact if it was a 14 year old boy asking if an...
How can it be great if you never have an orgasm, hah.....kidding
I'm sorry you had to go through that, I know you don't want that for your sister, and neither does your mother. Yes, even notify the police, because he could be removed from yalls situation, as well as be prevented from doing that to any person aga...