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well, is this a long distance relationship? me and my boyfriend live 3 hours away from each other, we see each other every couple of weeks. I pass time by studying, seeing friends and watching tv... it aint that bad really, time flies by and I'll be m...
this is a bit confusing, do you mean he got a fine for driving fast? well if thats the case then of course you don't have to pay... it was his decision to speed, not yours...
why do you have to stay in the same house? maybe you should stay out of her way, you said she doesn't like you, so there doesn't sound much ohope of you getting back together... you need some time apart from her to get over her.
maybe you should take a break, a few weeks apart to clear your head. I think then you would know where you stand with each other.
no that is not mean...
you are young, I didnt start masturbating until I was 16... you need to be in the mood, for girls relaxing is the main key, the more you try and get frustrated you wont get anywhere. try having a bath and relaxing, just be gentle with yourself... dont...
I think some people are just aggressive and enjoy widing people up, they get a thrill out of it, and they want to agrivate other people around them so they are like them too... some people are just like that, it's also part of growing up... but then ag...
questioning your sexuality is a part of growing up (not sure on you're age, but guessing you're at school) people do tend to get confused during their early to mid teens, soemtimes it can take a while to figure out what your sexuality is. everyone is ...
well maybe they fancy you?
some people are just not phone people. it's a bit different being next to them opposed to being on the phone. it's easier and more natural to respond to someone and talk when you are in person, I have that, I can ring my boyfriend and we have nothing...
monopoly lol
well he could have been talking to anoter girl at the same time and got the convo's mixed up, but thats a bit strange I guess. maybe he is letting you know how he feels about you, but is embarrassed? you need to talk to him!
if you go on the pill then you need to make sure he is clean of any STI's.
no, im assuming you're fairly young and during school people do soemtimes question their sexuality. ask youself, do you find other guys attractive, have sexual feelings the way you do about girls? soemtimes things like this take time to work out, you...
depends on the person... I think doggy is the best for both partners though..
omg why would you let him do that... you don't want him to, so refuse to have sex with him!!! im sure hed rather have sex with a condom than not at all... stand up for yourself!!! do you want a baby?!
look for a kinky outfit, such as maids or nurse? tie your hair cheeky like pigtails and ribbons or plaits. that always works for me lol.
er no that would not work against pregnancy, and also it would hurt you a lot! there are other methods such as the pill, but only condoms protect against sti's. maybe if you both got tested to make sure you're clean then you could take the pill, that...
well, have you had an argument or has anything happened to make him annoyed? I suppose if you like him, then he can sense that and he might seem a bit shy and could also feel the same way about you..?
thanks, I know it's the right thing to do =)
ok, I agree with that. it was very wrong, I just don't want to ruin things. thanks
it's not all about looks... would you rather date someone like a supermodel, but is a total up herself bi*** or someone not so perfect with a good personality? shallow girls date boys because they look good or have a car, but not for their personality...
sometimes things are too good to be true, I know when im in love I just focus on that and nothing else, and then my whole world falls apart. If my current boyfriend split up with me I would be heart broken and end up like I was. I loved my ex, and I ...
I really feel for you, I know how it feels, my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me nearly 2 years ago. At first I had endless, sleepless nights, I lost 2 stone in weight, everything I did made me feel sick. For me I quit everything, I quit m...
usually kissing and beinf intimate turns on girls, just run your hands over her body gently, slightly tickling her, im sure that will work.
my boyfriend told me that my eyes were what first attracted me to him... but some of my male friends are silly and say stuff like their a*s or boobs, lol. but I think in a serious way it would be eyes, smile and a good personality.
just be casual, dont go too over the top, dress in like jeans and a t-shirt, but add a little sparkle with some earings or jewelry... then you will look effortlessly great!
yeah, I think the average circumfranc eis about 5 inches, but you are only 14 and still growing, you are over average in length already, so you should be happy!
well at least he respects you and will not do it unless you feel ready. ask yourself are you ready? you are only 14, so you are in a sexual relationship at such a young age. but like you said, you have already done a lot of things for many months, s...
ok, well you need to stay calm for one thing. the more you stress about it the more nervous you will be. just relax. I know this sounds weird but practise on the back of your hand. really this will just happen naturally, but usually you start ki...
I know it was stupid, I regret it sooo much, I wasnt thinking, but I can drive, I have my own car so its not like I thought I would hit it. how long should I wait... do you think I should wait until he calls me, or do I need to keep calling him to sh...
im 2 years older than my boyfriend, it is nothing, we are practically the same age anyway... it's not like 10 years or anything we are both young.
he has nooo respect! leave him, before he leaves you... dont let him get the last laugh!!
practice on your own, cover your fingers with lube starting with one finger, when that feels comfortable insert two, then three etc. the more you pactice this the more used to it you will become, making it more comfortable and pleasurable.
maybe it is his way of letting you down gently, so by staying your friend you can adjust to life without his as your b.f. that could be totally wrong. or, he says its something he's always wanted to do and now that he is in a relationship wants ...
men often say things, how much they love you, want kids, etc. but when it actually happens they realise just how much of a big deal it actually is and how REAL it is. it may not be that he doesn't care for you or doesn't want the child. it could...
thanks for the advice... I still want one, so hopefully I will within the next year. if I do get it done and go out in public, I'll just say I broke my nose! thanks =D
you could be pregnant, an abortion does not provide contraception.
ok, well im sure there are product you can use for this... but straightening really damages hair! it happened to me... so I had my really thick hair thinned out by a hair dresser, then I bought straight clip-in hair extensions and you can have them cu...
hmm, I havent before, but it does make me feel sick, but as long as you have a drink straight after you should be ok! I always have a bottle of coke close by! haha!
loads of people stress about their first proper kiss, and I really was! but it just happened, people can tell you what to expect and how to do it,. but there is no 'right' way, it will just happen naturally, and then you will think, 'what was I even w...
well if he precame then there is certainly a chance you could be pregnant... if your period is unusual to what it normally is (more heavy, more light) then that can also be a sign of being pregnant, maybe you should take a test rather than stressing if...
can I ask, for how long will he be inside? I know it must be hard for you x
yeah, there is not blood relation, so it is totally legal. some people might think it as weird, but you have not grown up together, so it's not like you have had a brother/sister kind of relationship. so go for it. x
maybe they know something you dont and If they told you what it was theyre afraid to hurt your feelings, so telling you to finish with him could cuse you less pain? that might not even be the reason, maybe they are jealous that you have a boyfriend? ...
thankyou, I will try everything you said =)
thankyou. yes, he knows about me ex and I've explained the reason why I get upset over stupid things, but I know it can't be easy for him. im am trying my hardest to change and get over the ex. I dont speak to my ex or anything, so he is history, bu...
yeah, so get a morning after pill or go to your doctor and they can help.
there is nothing wrong with you. maybe he is just shy, maybe he has never kissed a girl before. the best way to start is just pecks on the lips, then once he seems comfortable use tounges. don't rush though.
your boyfriend???