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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
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skills you take into consideration when talking with a person... like...eye contact, being able to repeat back what they say, your body posture...est.
all my life - k-ci and jojo (first song I danced to with my boyfriend and it's been our song ever since!!)
ummm... this is hard!! it's not in order!! and it dosen't mean I like one better than the other... it's just that these are the top 10 songs that I'm in love with right now... some are old and some are new =) 1. we belong together 2. all my life (m...
well... you don't want to act too inmature!! =P... if I were you... I'd start off with flashing him a smile every now and then... and if you get smiles back... start saying "hey" or "sups" when you see him in the hall!! then just slowly put yourself ou...
awww.. I've had that happen to me sooo MANY DAMN TIMES!! - that's why I gave up on bangs!! =P but it is hard...and there really is nothing much you can do, but clip or pin it back till it grows!!
I agree with mrscobainx3, because what she did for her 14th birthday is what I kinda did for mine =) something simple and fun is the best!! shopping, movies, then dinner at you fav. restruant!! or since you're a June baby, why not go to the beach? - su...
ummm...dose simple plan count as emo??...if so... is "addicted" a good song for you?... or maybe "I can wait forever" (love the words in that song!!)
really wants to have sex with you eh??...be careful...cause to me it may seem like he's kinda fourcing you!! cause 13 is quite a young age... I just dont want you doing anything you'll regreat later!! I'm like 17, and I've almost been with my boyfriend...
Jesse!! why?... I find him more tallented and better looking =)
a kiss or a makeout? =P well... for me I start off by gental kisses... then start licking the top of my boyfriend's lip or gentally bitting his lower lip (love to tease him!!) as I work my way to make out with him =) hope that helped!
I'd say the best thing to do is to talk to her, ask her why she's giving you all these excusses!! not trying to be mean... but since you have a high sex drive - maybe you haven't been showing her the amount of love she needs. ahaha...I once had a guy f...
I HEART SUSHI!!... don't really like sushimi...it's too gooie for me =P but yupps...SUSHI is 100% good for you - just because you can put anything in it!!! lol... I'm like picky with veggies... but when it's in SUSHI!! I just pop it into my mouth!! =)
it's compleatly normal =) ahaha... some of my girls learn most of their "sex 411" from watching porn!!
I agree with theinjun!! it really seems that you've found a nice guy!! as long as you still love him and show him that you do... he'll see through your shyness or maybe he loves your shyness =) just be who you are - cause that's what a guy is suppose t...
anything that's not meat..I'm gussing?? have friends that are vegetarians...and they practically eat veggies, fruits, dairy products, grain products (every group on the food guide, except for meat, but they eat alternatives (eggs,tofu...) ...ooohhh and...
all guys are different... but the best way to approach him would be from what you explained up above - start off by making out and simple touching...than slowly make your way down =) and once you get down there, grab a hold of it (don't grab too hard =...
chicken (I love eating at "wild wings") iphone (I really want one!!) I'd chose ipod from mp3 and mp4 blackberry MUSIC!! (listing to some right now) aol or yahoo...??? ummm...both are okay is a camcorder a digi cam?...because if it is... camcorder...
ahahah go bungee-jumping (sky flyer) at Canada's Wonderland... I'm too much of a wuss to do it =P
love the pic, you dog's real cute =)
anything really... maybe go shopping, hit the movies and have a dinner before you guys head home?... depending on where you you live...maybe you can go to a teen's club (I did that for my sweet 16th - went to a club called "docks")?... go swimming /bow...
wow!! I duno really... but if I were you...and I wanted him back...I'd try to distract myself with other things... and try not to bring up the past back... cause yeaaa sure...there may be some good memories about the past, but the past is the past... a...
when you have someone in your mind before you go to sleep... you normally bring them into your sleep!!... where you have sweet dreams about them =) but since you're not with him yet...I wouldn't quite say you "guess you love him"... I'd say it's more o...
ahaha... I dunno, cause I'm a girl!! but my boyfriend said looking at a pic of me or hearing me moan through the phone helps him!! So if you have a girlfriend...I recomend that!! LOL =P if not... you could always look at a hot girl in a magazine...and ...
I'm not too sure really, cause I've never had sex. But from what I've heard, the first time is painful, since you're still "tight" and your "cherry" might not have been poped yet. So I'd recomend lube, or having him to losen you up a bit, before you gu...
Every guy is diffrent...but for me, my boyfriend likes it when I slowly go down his pants to grab it...ahaha...it gets him even more "stiff"... and when I tease him... it gets him in the mood =) you should consider asking him first tho...but if he dose...
think about who you "like" more...this "guy friend" of yours or your boyfriend?? and did this "guy friend", say himself that he likes you or are you just assuming it, cause he's so nice?? I'm just saying...if both you and this guy like eachother more t...
it was a geometric model to explain the variations in speed and direction of the apparent motion of the moon, sun, and planets. ahaha...I heart astronomy =)
if he flirts and hangs out with you at school, starts getting to know your friends a little, calls you up cause he misses you, walks you home cause he wants you to be safe...all that stuff you want from a guy!! - you noe he loves you...but as superfres...
I don't think anyone really "knows" the correct answer to where heaven is nor can they point you to the right direction!! but I do believe in a heaven...and from the bible... I know it's somewhere up in the clouds =)
I've been in the same situation as you!! so I hope I can help =) well...if you really digg her and like her that way... and you noe that she likes you back... than why not?? but if...you two aren't "officially" dating yet... I'd go with a kiss on the ...
if he smiles at you and he's hung out with you twice...than hun...he notices you =) all you need to do now...is start getting to noe him...talk to him bit by bit...but it really starts off by being friends at first, while dropping some hints to show hi...
I dunno myself really... but I'm guessing it's from songs (bed, touch my body, I want to f**k you), movies (american pie, euro trip...), ads (magazines, tv, net)... it's like EVERYWHERE!! if you don't like it...and think it's wrong!!...than don't pay a...
ahaha...I loved "good luck chuck" =) but yeaa... in your vagina!! but before you just ram your fingers up there!!...try stimulating you clit first, than go for the g-spot!!... if you dunno where these places are...I recomend looking at a diagram =)
ahaha...some guy said this to me as a joke "girl, is your daddy a terorist?... cause you are da BOMB!!" ... I dunno.. I thought it was real lame!! =P a cute one though is "I lost my teddy bear, will you sleep with me?"...my boyfriend said that to m...
wow!!...well I think superfresh has said it all... you shouldn't really change yourself for a guy to notice you - cause it just isn't worth it!! a guy is suppose to love you for you... not cause of your looks!!...so I wouldn't recommend changing yourse...
ahaha... sometimes my boyfriend tries to wipe it on me... but I don't let him =P so he normally goes to wash his fingers off!!
ohhh!! I HEART THAT SONG!! lol... I hear it on the radio sometimes!! - I wish they'd play it more tho!! ohhh...lol...sorry... the song is called STAY by lisa loeb...I think... but I'm pretty sure =)
I agree with naomi...and do whatever you have passion in doing =) since you've had experience with cheerleading...why not try something that's on the lines with the sport?? -go for...maybe... dance (hip hop?) or gymastics (since you're probably already...
like piker187 has said... you can never tell if a guy is being true to you or not, cause sometimes it can all just be an "act". but if he says he loves you, wants to be around you, cares and respects you... practically dose everything he can, to show y...
if you haven't been sexual active without protection... you're fine and don't need to worry. periods are never normal for girls our age... they normally start becoming normal when you're in your 20s!!
16??? really...WOW??...I dunno... maybe it's due to your SEXY BODY!! =P cause no one I noe that's 16 has a hot bod like you do!!! - you should model and be an insperation to the lazy boys out there!! ;)
first off... besides being shocked, how did you feel when your dad told you the news?... talk the situation over with your dad, while pouring out your feeling towards the situation... and if you're ready for it, ask him about your birth mom =) as fo...
since it's getting warm... why not take your kids outdoors =) do the little fun things that kids love!!...go to the zoo, a fair, the beach... practically anywhere where they can run around and explore =) as for you wife... like I've said... lol... take...
it's because they're worried about you, especially your family... your health means the world to them and they just want you to stay stong and healthy!! - but if you are still strong and in mind you know that what you're doing is what makes you happy.....
lol... I agree with tbug829's sister!! you just have to take a breath and go for it!! it's much better than thinking about kissing him!! keep your mind off about how nervous you are and think about how lucky you are to kiss the guy of your dreams!! to ...
lol... teddy bears don't work as well as the real guy tho!! take a breath and don't rush it... I was like that at first with my first boyfriend... it's really all about timing... and the perfect moment...because it's true...us girls want our first kiss...
what kinda guy is he?? dose he love sports?? (rollerblades, a football?)...what kinda clothes is he into??? (AE/A&F hoodies??) is he a game person? (a psp/DS/wii game??) ... think about thoese questions, than make a decission!!...or what I love to do w...
ohhh!!! I just remembered!!! you can try shampooing with Pantene Brunnete!! - it'll lighten up the tone of your hair and make it look more brunnete!! ... lol it'll work like a charm =)
I'd say to go for the blonde...just because I've had friends with dark brown hair that went for caramel...and it didn't really show up!! I'd say go for the blonde (but not a really light one!!!... go for a darker tone of blonde - you'll know what I mea...
ummm.. dyed hair?? I'm not too sue if this will work on dyed hair...but my friend with natural black hair lightend her hair to brown by soaking her hair with lime juice and laying in the sun for about an hour, till she jumps into her pool to wash it ou...