buringirl8's Advice

• Curves
  No skinng jeans..it will make you look bigger
  
  
• Firming Creams..
  I've tried creams on every part of my body..lol...sure it may help a little..and I mean non noticable little to other people. Exercise and weight training is what tones you not something you'll pay mega bucks for...
  
  
• Im 19 and think im pregnant
  gee..I don't know if you have symptons that early...guess you could wait till 11 Jul and see if you get your period again or just go get a drugstore test kit. Question: you are engaged right...curious as to why you would want to get pregant before you...
  
  
• Boy problems
  Simple...tell him you really feel that he is Haressing you and if he doesn't stop ...you will report him to the authorities for Haressment.
  
  
• How would I tell my Mom I think I have a yeast infection?
  You could try buying something at the drugstore for that to try first...but if it's not gone within a week you will have to see a doctor. At which time you may have to tell Mom.
  
  
• How do I trust him?
  If there isn't trust now the marriage will probably not survive...Sorry to be so blunt but that is the way it is. He sounds like he may have a committment issue and is not ready for marriage. You may want to search your heart and make a decision ...
  
  
• Men and Women
  I beleive the needs of a man and the needs of a woman are very different. A man needs to be 1)Respected..2) He needs recreational companionship..3) Sex A woman need 1) Love..2) Conversation..3) Affection A man expresses what he is thinking and...
  
  
• Fell for someone
  I would think that you have to decide who or what is most important to you...Gabby or her b/f ...
  
  
• Another God Question
  As long as you have excepted Jesus as your savior then you have salvation. In time you will want to please the Lord...we all slip up from time to time...we are human. Ahhh...so you listen to rap? Did you know that there is a lot of Christian rap out ...
  
  
• How in the world can I do this without hurting her?
  Tell her the truth about how you really feel...Girls are very emotional and , yes...they do cry. If you approach it in a caring way, she will be hurt but she does deserve the truth...that way you both can move on.
  
  
• Is what I said ok? What do I do next?
  I think you are doing a great job. You are being honest with him and yourself. If you feel that you can only offer him friendship right now then that's fine. Don't be pressured and go with your heart...Great job
  
  
• My period hasn't come but pregnancy tests are negative
  Maybe you are really stressed out and guilty about this and that's why your period is not coming. Does your mother have to go into the docs office with you? Even though you are 16 you can tell her you would like a minute to talk to the doc on your own...
  
  
• How to fix my jealousy of popular girls?
  Love yourself and don't expend your time and energy on jealousy. Jealousy will just eat you up inside if you let it. Remember ...what you do to other people seems to have it's way of coming back to you.
  
  
• Why do boys alway try to play or cheat on a girl?
  If a boy is cheating on his girlfriend it usually means that he's really not that into her. He thinks there's something better . Think about this quote..."Don't make someone your Priority when they are making you an Option"
  
  
• Help me to tell one of my friends (100%)
  That's a tough one as you don't want to loose her friendship. She may not even want to beleive you if you did tell her, which would put a strain on your relationship with her... Does the guy know that you know he's cheating? If he does then he doesn't...
  
  
• Is he just using me for s*x?
  I just have this to say..."Don't make someone a Priority , when they make you an Option"
  
  
• How to stop caring what people think?
  You have to love yourself...Everyday pick something about yourself that you like...it can be a physical body part or even a nice trait you have like You are knd to people. The attitude you put out is what you receive back... Keep positive thoughts ab...
  
  
• Which is worse for a christian?
  You know...God loves you anyway. If going to church in tank and shorts is really what's in your heart to do then I guess you'll do it. The religious people will probably give you some nasty looks but the people who love regardless of what you are wea...
  
  
• Sex after marriage? (100%)
  What happens if you don't marry him...will you keep getting into sexual relationships and think it's ok because you think you will get married to the person...it's a circle ...and we use it as an excuse I'm afraid.
  
  
• Sex after marriage?
  You know what, that's between you,your boyfriend and God. If you guys are being convicted then try not to put yourselves into lustful temptations. Have an honest think on whether the relationship has been built on sex...it will survive if it wasn't......
  
  
• Athiest quote. (50%)
  Firstly ,I had to search the meaning of Malevolent...it means to do evil and harm to someone. I don't see God being that way at all. Would God have his son die on the cross for us if that were so? Does God strike you down dead when you sin? No. I see ...
  
  
• Can Christ, God, and Reincarnation coexist? (100%)
  I don't know everything that's in the bible but I have never read anything about reincarnation, so I'm thinking it's not off God. and a false teaching.
  
  
• What's a good Bible to buy?
  Any bible is good ...I enjoy "The Good News"...it doesn't have the thees and thous so it is more understandable to read. I also enjoy my student bible which is NIV by Zondervan. My suggestion is to go to a christian bookstore and pick a few and sit dow...
  
  
• How do I get over my mom & dad divorcing?
  First ...your Dad and Mom love you very much. Talk to your Mom and let her know that you would like to see your Dad...she may know how to reach him. You mentioned pray for you...lots of churches have people you can talk to...or an older person you can...
  
  
• Straying from god (100%)
  First off ...start by asking for forgiveness and also forgive yourself. We all stray sometimes. If you are struggling in a certain area you can talk to a trusted friend or mentor...maybe the church. Sometimes we need someone to keep us on track and be ...
  
  
• Is it possible that a man and a woman can be just friends.
  Yes...a platonic friendship is very special...it's someone you can trust with your heart...no matter what...
  
  
• Why does Religion cause so much pain
  We all sin ... you are no different then the rest of us. And if the people you are talking too keep telling you your are sinning ...then I would have to say that those people are not compassionate and caring. We should try to help one another...not con...
  
  
• What is your position on hunting?
  I believe hunting is ok. After all, that's why God put animals on this earth. Plus I think that it's in man's nature to desire the hunt. I don't however agree with killing, just for the sake of killing.
  
  
• Limiting food but not seeing results
  For myself I find if I limit my carb intake and walk at least 4 times per week for approx 45 min, it keeps my weight good. I eat the most at morning time, less in afternoon and have a light supper. I also limit the things that are White in my diet...l...
  
  
• Is it really love?
  Love is not only a feeling but it's a choice...you choose to love. If it's a new relationship then it's probably lust... Take the lust out of the equation and see where it leads you. The difference between a man and a woman is that A man loves to ...