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bubux007's Advice
Do not hesitate to tell him where you need his touch. There is nothing bad in it.
Yes. You should make her c*m somehow.
Love both of them without any doubt. It is possible. If your ex would visit you make her and your present g/f friend, and you make love each other in 3.
You should have sex, but with a man. And if your "husband" refuses it, you should do it with an other man. Of course, you must be careful. That man should be a gentle and discrete person. You two have to like each other at least.
This depends on the whole situation. If you don not let anybody down, then you are free to leave. But e.g. is you have kid then you have to consider the kid's interest too. Also, it is not nice to let e.g. an ill husband/wife down.
You are not the only one. 6-7 from 10 girls do this.
Try to find partner who allows you to flip-flop between girl and boy on regular basis, so you will see that what is your preference. 3some is also a perfect situation to see that what you do more frequently.
Do not want to stop it b/c this intention makes you masturbating more. But try to limit it to e.g. 1 pro day or something similar.
Do not let her to rule your life. She wants to limit your personal freedom by emotional extortion.
For boys it is important to be able to delay his c*mming, but girls does not need this. Let her to c*m when it is coming.
Because when your p**y gets wet then not only lubrication happens, but it lips are opening and the tissue inside gets to be full of blood, so it is more sensitive, and more elastic for receiving the d*ck.
Sexual urge can be strong, so both males and females may go for satisfaction to somewhere else if they do not get it from the current partner. Once you should start and learn giving head. But you are who decides the right time and right guy for that.
Viagra.
If you never get wet and sexually excited when making out. It can be an insolvable problem, but in some other cases the right guy can excite you to being wet and horny after a certain time foreplay. Yes, nervousness may also cause this symptoms. You m...
Check that if he has a hard on, or not.
If you have g/f but feel turned on when watch your guy friends then yes, you may be BI. What to do? Hmm. Maybe initiate a MFM 3some with your g/f and a male friend, then you will see that for what you feel urges. (Bu you should not tell it immediatel...
You may tell her that you have the book, even show her it. It is not a bunch of crap, but certainly not for virgin teenagers, I mean not for practice it. As a reading book it s not so bad. At your age love and sex is much more romantic and tender, then...
They make their own life bad.
Some girls like it, others hate it. If he sticks his d*ck up slowly, and with enough lubrication then it gives you a certain enjoyable pain. He should stop immediately (with sticking up) when you say "stop", then he may continue when you say "yes". So...
1/Try to love her. Tenderly. 2/ Make notes on that what was the reason of the fight of the day. After few days you may see that you are fighting for nothing.
No problem. You have about 3 years to start.
There is no problem with you. Your sex urge is higher than the average.
Yes, you can lead yourself to a life that is almost the Hell itself. Sex at 11 is bad, not because it would be a guilt, it is not that, but because you may destroy your all future.
Only in one way. You have to f*ck a girl.
A lot of lube and stick in very slowly. When she says stop, then stop, WAIT, then go in a bit again, etc. Full penetration may take a lot of time.
Not. That makes you even smarter.
Don't be confused. Too much time without sex makes this with almost all boys, and many many girls. Forget it, he did what the Nature ordered. After all, he is a healthy male.
No, it was not small, but you were not ready for sex. I mean it usually opens when a girl really wants to take in a d*ck.
Cheating happens. It is possible not to forgive you and break up, or forgive you and stay with you. But nobody has the right to dominate you because you have cheated on him in the past. I would not stay with anybody who wants to to prevail over me co...
:)) If both of you are healty (e.g. no sore throat, no herpes, etc) then you should not use condom. Some people are able to use even 3 condoms when b/j. That is st*pid. Bl*wjob is almost the same as a long kissing. Mucous membrane meets mucous memb...
At your age you may try everything. You will not be "bi" by one trial, only if you make love with girls on a regular basis, for years.
They will easily detect that you are manipulating your sample.
I read from your letter that your Dad is a good Dad with you, and possibly with the other kid too. So if your relationship is good, then you may bring up this question and tell him that you are ready to meet your half-brother. Note his reaction. If he ...
I have never interfered two other persons' likes and dislikes, even if that was in the closed family, like your problem is now. So, in your place I would just not deal with their friendship or antipathy. You may like or "need" both of them, and they ma...
Do not be disappointed. This boyfriend was not really good for you. He is a twisty character. Even be happy with hat you are free again, and may have a nice and calculable boyfriend. Who needs such a dipsh...
Try to make both of you tested, and if you are clear, for what you have 99% chance, then you do not have to be afraid of anything, you my do with each other whatever you want.
By Viagra.
Yes, the emotional relationship between you and him will decline. This natural, you need a mannish father, not a women-imitator. Maybe later, when this will not be a point for you, you can get together again. But it needs 10 or more years. I think, ev...
Ask her. "May I give you a good by kiss?"
If she said she did NOT, then NOT. She told you this "confusing" because you do not trust her, and always suspecting something. This is an illness.
Invite your g/f too, and you will enjoy it.
Keep all of them. B/f gives you a different fun than the g/fs. Even, you may combine the possibilities. Do not feel bad.
Not, mainly if you took that girl to me also time to time. We can kiss her and hold her hands together - time to time.
There is nothing weird in this dream, but you are right if you do not tell anybody. This dream is your dream.
At this moment you are just nothing. This question will be determined at about 16-18. Till that you should not deal with such a question. Simply live your life.
You are at that age when you should start "doing stuff". The best is that if you regard all the stuff like a play. In fact, sex should be a fun for you, nothing else.
Oh no, you are at your 40-ties. Let him to play around a bit with that L. Soon he will be 50, and then there is no chance to anything more in his life. If he can do something with L. that is your common success. You have NOT a husband who is totally in...
You have to ask him to watch porn together, and you will learn that there is problem with this. Maybe you can give him a h/j meantime, so it will be a good fun for both of you.
No, you did your best. He cannot c*m by sucking, you have to j@rk off him.
Hormonally you are not mature for c*mming, yet. And you have to find that stimuli that will excite you sexually. We are all different a bit in this respect.