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bryalljack's Advice
they are all right but please understand Your first time may not be as magical as you want it to be because of the pain it may cause.
It is perfectly ok to say no... but obviously you don't wantto or you wouldnt be asking us for our opinions RIGHT!!!... Your not being self concious your just inexperienced in how to react to this sort of thing. If you feel you have the self control ...
thats a hard one... I would try it again but keep your eyes wide open... dont be completely nieve...
Im sorry i dont have an answer for you but I dont come on here often and I have almost the exact same problem. please email me any responses you get to this question... Mine keeps telling me he has the "lone wolf syndrome" but yet every time I hang ou...