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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.

bryalljack's Advice
they are all right but please understand Your first time may not be as magical as you want it to be because of the pain it may cause.
It is perfectly ok to say no... but obviously you don't wantto or you wouldnt be asking us for our opinions RIGHT!!!... Your not being self concious your just inexperienced in how to react to this sort of thing. If you feel you have the self control ...
thats a hard one... I would try it again but keep your eyes wide open... dont be completely nieve...
Im sorry i dont have an answer for you but I dont come on here often and I have almost the exact same problem. please email me any responses you get to this question... Mine keeps telling me he has the "lone wolf syndrome" but yet every time I hang ou...