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Hi, my name is Tyra, I live in Miami. I'm very easy going and low key. As you'll probably see I have fairly liberal views. I love reading, movies, and just hanging out. I also like to take personality test, I think they're fairly accurate 
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briand88's Advice
Sex can mess with your menstruation, if precum got in, you stil aren't very likely to get pregnant. It is only speculated that it has semen in it and there has been no solid evidence. Like how AIDs is speculated to be able to be spread with saliva but ...
Stretchmarks are from growing and things. They go away for teenage girls so long as they stay in shape. If it really bothers someone, then they're just kind of shallow. Ell had stretch marks when she was seventeen and she was only like a hundred pounds...
No, you're good. I think the average is like five to seven inches. So you're upper average. It doesn't really matter though, either way. People exaggerate when they say that it's really important in pleasuring. It has little to do with it. So long as y...
Ell: The ring is new and they don't list all the side effects it could have. There are forums talking about what a shitty crazy thing it is. Shots are a hassel and they also have unpleasant side effects. Do you remember things well? the pill is an opti...
Ell: It is from shaing if you do that. It's normal. I don't know if it happens when you don't shave, don't remember, but its normal.
Use the faucet in your bath tub. Scoot up to the end of your tub and let the water run over your clitoris. It's the easiest and nicest way.
It's at the opening of her vagina.
Ell: Shaving is a preference of the girl. Ask before you take it off, I think it's creepy if you shave, but some girls may want you to be pornstripperish. It's really just a preference thing.
You ripped her hymen. Poppong the cherry is ripping the hymen as you are taking a girl's virginity. You can rip the hymen with your fingers and your fingers don't have to be long because it is at the vaginal opening.
Are you asking whether her virginity has been taken or whether her hymen has been ripped?
Yeah, you can, but probably not the first three or four days of it.
Ell: I like them respectful, stubborn, calm, with their own minds. I like when they don't take commands or do what I say but they also have to listen to what I say. I don't like uber-muscley guys because that gets pretty gross but I like them to be abl...
Half of it is mental for women. If you aren't calm it doesn't work. If you really desperately are trying to make it feel good or get in orgasm it won't. Just try thinking differently when you are doing it. Don't try anything for an entire week, then go...
Ell: When I was younger I used to be really depressed and unmotivated. I thought about suicide, although I never attempted it. I cried myself to sleep every night though, and I slept all the time because if I was asleep I didn't have to feel so much. L...
He probably doesn't want to say. It's embarassing and he probably doesn't know whether you like him back or not. I would hang out with him more and really get to know him, that way you'll know exactly what he's thinking and you won't have to worry abou...
She's probably just worried about you, don't let him call your mother dumb. Especially if you didn't say it first. She doesn't want you getting stds and knocked up. Explain that to him. Would you rather her not care about you at all? Or not drive you o...
Ell: Maybe you aren't as nice as you think. You could be arrogant and just not know it. You could be going for girls who aren't nice, who generally don't like nice guys, I don't know you so I couldn't really say. I've only ever heard like one guy say s...
Go and don't look.
Well, you probably shouldn't be depressed, if you always feel guilty, then you can probably be happy if you try doing community volunteer work. Get a volunteer job aat an animal shelter or something. You shouldn't ever feel guilty about being happy. Yo...
If you love her then you should be with her. There isn't anything wrong with it and you should be happy. Remember to be protected and break things in nice and easily with your family. You may want to try putting a hypothetical situation to your parent ...
Well yeah, but he shouldn't be telling her that sh*t. If you get one when you think of a girl, keep it to yourself. It isn't like he's saying "I get boners"just for the hell of saying it, he's saying when he thinks of her, which is just dumb and disre...
Leaving him would be the best option. He sounds like a very controlling person, and they start out trying to cut you off from your friends and family so that you are alone, and then they become abusive when you have no one left to turn to. I wouldn't d...
Ell (girl): It is better than being obsessed with work or hurting people. Everyone has something that isn't ideal to them, but to someone else, it will be ideal. You aren't a freak for being human. If everyone was the same and perfect life would not be...
Ell: When me and Brian started I used to dream about Brian being dead all the time. I killed him in one dream, it just means she's nervous. I stopped after a few months. We're still together and it's been years, so don't let it bother you.
It's easier if you start out by kissing their neck and then progress to their lips, or else you can just really slowly lean in and kiss the corner of their lips. Kiss their lips normal first and after a few seconds of that use a little bit of tongue an...
Ell: It isn't creepy you're just conservative, immature and you've never done it. It's completely natural and stereotypes are being annihalated about that stuff. Girls who are alone deserve to have the same priveleges as guys. Anyway though, vibrators ...
Ell: Don't whether you're a girl or guy so I'll give you both, girls- a good possibility it will hurt a good bit, guys- no, won't hurt
Ell: Have you ever tried masterbating? If you never have an orgasm with yourself it's pretty unlikely that you'll ever have an orgasm with a guy. There's a mental leading process that you have to learn to be able to do it. I would suggest vibratorrs or...
No. Not unless you get pregnant and then you wouldn't start it for nine months. It isn't likely that you will get pregnant if you've never had a period before but you could be unlucky and have sex on your first ovulation, which would make it a very str...
I agree with them but no matter what, the more you do it, the better you'll get at it. You'll figure it out by practicing, and he shouldn't mind.