bimjob's Advice

• God please help us
  It really sounds like she should be getting grief counselling. Encourage her to seek professional help. Her family doctor or school counsellor would be very good sources of help.
  
  
• How are sapphire and the rudy alike?
  sapphire and the rudy (sic) are the same mineral, just the impurities are different, and that is what gives the color.
  
  
• S2 - what does it mean?
  WOW. My answer didn't come through at all!!♥
  
  
• S2 - what does it mean?
  Also for hearts: key on the NUMBER pad (not the top row) ♥ - another method done by typing &hea rts; but without the space (Note that the last character is a SEMI-colon)
  
  
• How Smart / Knowledgeable are you?
  Ethmer, repost that link please. It's incomplete. (Goes to "Page Not Found".) Thanks
  
  
• 2 year old punishment
  Good for you for going to time outs. And 1 minute for each year is a good guide, but remember that the minutes don't start until the child has calmed down; so if a 3 y.o. is fussy for a while, then they will be in time out "for-a-while" plus 3 minutes....
  
  
• How do I get them to forgive me?
  Imthebestthteverdoneit, what your uncle did is child abuse, flat out. Period. You need counselling so that you can come to realize why that kind of child rearing does NOT produce good people, but rather sadistic or warped people. YOU WERE NOT IN THE ...
  
  
• Earthquakes on mars
  Seems I read that term about 45 years ago in a sci-fi book by P. Anderson or R. Heinlein (my favorite then - R.I.P.).
  
  
• Does anyone actually read the terms?
  I scanned them when I joined, but last year they were MUCH simpler. The "...am I pretty... " rule wasn't there. It was a little closer to an agreement to behave and not hate (and no homework.) At least that's what my (admittedly forgetful) memory says....
  
  
• Is she being greedy or just her metabolism?
  Let the doctor know your concerns, and also let him know if there is any history he should know. And then follow his advice. And that's my advice. Good Luck!!
  
  
• Why delete prayer requests?
  And what if it were a prayer request for something you think is bad. Imagine the prayer requests from radical jihadists!!! Or prayer requests from that church that pickets military funerals and says it's a GOOD thing that the soldiers are dead. The...
  
  
• Sexual intercourse and periods
  IF he used a condom 100% of the time, you aren't pregnant. (100% means that he didn't just slide in a 'little bit' before the condom. Because a man's pre-c*m has some sperm in it.) Stress can delay a period. (Like freaking out because you just had sex...
  
  
• Baby or no Baby
  I agree. Wait, you were 14 when you started going with him. Definitely wait a bit more. Yes, I know that a 10 year difference (even at your age) can work. (I know of one.) But you are JUST starting to be at an age where you can be making mature judg...
  
  
• Lotions for down there after shaving?
  And once the burning stops (next day) use baby powder.
  
  
• Sleeping pills
  Talk to your doctor.
  
  
• Cheating death
  All living things will eventually die. Some sooner, some later. 'Cheating death' means that something that might have caused a death, simply didn't. Nothing metaphysical about it. It was either chance, or medical intervention. Take care of yourself in...
  
  
• Dragons Who Were They And Did They Really Exist?
  Cheddarfix, I agree with you on the dragon = dinosaur statement. But ancient people never saw any living ones. They saw their bones and skeletons. All dinosaurs died out millions of years before ancient humans came along. (At least those that would h...
  
  
• There's a guy courting me and we're both male (100%)
  MARLOWE, there are TWO questions here: 1.) Should you be dating men, or women, and 2.) Safety of internet dating. At your age, you are probably pretty sure of which sex arouses you, and interests you. If one does and the other doesn't - that's the...
  
  
• How do I tell my mom I'm bi?
  I would recommend that you NOT get into discussing your orientation with your parents right now. A hetero teen doesn't bring his sexual preferences up at the dinner table. There is no good reason that you should either. (There IS a bad reason, and th...
  
  
• How do I choose birth control?
  You do not need a doctor for condoms. All other forms of birth control require a doctor. Family doctor, Planned Parenthood's, and free clinics are all sources of the different types, depending on your age and where you live. Skipping periods is harmle...
  
  
• Why would a guy do this?
  Angelfire is dead on. All he wants is to do is get between your legs. That plus have girls desperate enough to keep pursuing him - it strokes his ego. Drop him and NEVER call or text him again. If he contacts you brush him off like the louse that he is.
  
  
• A quesion for guys!!!
  I would not force or trick her at any time no matter what. I have way too much respect and love to even consider that. If there were a compelling reason (and I can't even think of one) I might try to explain it, but if she didn't completely agree, then...
  
  
• Sex talk
  Sex is a very big commitment, especially for the woman. (Guys just want to score.) If you are uncomfortable, Then that should tell you that this is not the right time, and (in my opinion) that is not the right guy. (He's not even willing to talk, he j...
  
  
• Does this sound bad? (100%)
  It is rape. It could be child molestation depending on your state and possibly his age. (He could get in really big time trouble.) No matter what, you need (BADLY) counselling and / or therapy to deal with all sorts of issues. You may very well develo...
  
  
• Coming out (100%)
  Ineedyou, I would recommend that you NOT get into discussing your orientation with your parents right now. A hetero teen doesn't bring his sexual preferences up at the dinner table. There is no good reason that you should either. (There IS a bad reaso...
  
  
• High School Freshman
  Subjects are harder, but then I'm sure you expect that. Your fellow students will actually be a bit better than middle school. Unless a student is unwilling to adjust, then they might have a problem. I'm guessing that you will be fine. Good Luck!!
  
  
• Should we disable or remove members for constantly being unhelpful?
  I agree, but that is a tough call. Possibly a graduated (e.g. stepped) series of actions. 1. A friendly general statement for the person to improve 2. A warning 3. Loss of the person's icons and pictures for a limited time 4. a limited time lock-ou...
  
  
• Signed up here and I dont get the email?
  Also for a while yahoo was bouncing my FunMail. I was getting it for a few months, then all of a sudden yahoo bounced ALL my FunMail even though I Had it listed as one of my contacts. I switched e-mail addresses for a while and after I switched back to...
  
  
• Birth control.
  Eyoel is talking about emergency contraceptives, and they can greatly reduce the chance of pregnancy if done very soon after unprotected sex. Also a commercial product called "Plan B" is available from the pharmacy if the buyer is 18 or older, but if t...
  
  
• Toilet broken from dropping fireworks in it, how to fix it? (100%)
  You put what amounts to dynamite in the tank and then are surprised at the consequences.??? You get my vote for dumass stunt.