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angelfire2708's Advice
**So my qustion is how many times do I have to see her before I can get in her pants?** >> Wow, every girl out there would love a horny, disrespectful jerk like you...NOT! Its obvious you dont give a damn about her, only what you can get from her. Seri...
You really do need to STOP watching porn!
Second time around relationships usually are never the same. Obviously there was a reason you broke up in the first place, and apparently hes acting like he just doesnt care anymore.
Is that what HE told you? LoL!! If you believe that then I have a bridge to sell you in Alaska!
** I wont be happy until I make love with the person I love and I know this person loves me.**>>Then WHY hasnt he asked you to be his girlfriend? You dont have a clue what love really is, because love does NOT equal sex! You WILL regret giving your vir...
B.!! Nothing more than friends with benefits!! How can you call yourself, and him shy when your having sex? Thats NOT a shy move! "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free".
He didnt have feelings for you when you did for him, but now when your in a relationship he up and has feelings for you a year later? Weird if you ask me. Why dont you just stay with the sure thing...your boyfriend, because the other guy sounds like he...
Boredom is NOT an excuse to have sex! Just because you have a boyfriend doesnt mean you put your friends on the back burner. Boys will come and go, but friends will always be there. You need to start hanging out with the girls...maybe then you wont be ...
Guys dont like rejection...you hurt his ego!
It means hes sweet talking you for sex! That is NOT friendship behavior Hun. Please dont assume that when a horny boy wants to get physical with you he likes you, because that isnt true! Stay away from boys who want you for physical purposes because th...
If you dont know that then why are you talking about having sex with a couple of boys? You REALLY need to get EDUCATED before getting sexual, or your going to end up being a teenage pregnancy/STD statistic!!
It means hes a horny PIG! What do you think it means...that he likes you? Your JUST a piece of a$$ to him, cant you see that? Hes sweet talking you so you'll give him what he wants, then ignore you after he gets it! Are you that naive Hun? Why are you ...
Get drunk, and have sex? Do you realize how IMMATURE, an IRRESPONSIBLE that is? First off, that boy is a LOSER, and a player for cheating on his girlfriend. He says he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend, because of some Dr. bill? Do you know h...
Why did you two break up in the first place? Hes an ex for a reason, and second chances usually end the very same way it did the first time. If you couldnt work things out without having to end the relationship, what makes you think its going to work a...
If you're really 15, how come your profile says your 14? NO, you should NOT take him back. Hes just going to tell you everything you want to hear again to get you to have sex. This boy CLEARLY ONLY wants sex, not you! Here is something for you to r...
How old is your boyfriend? Does he realize your just a 14 yr old girl, not an adult woman?
Move on. You have NO control over someone elses feelings, and actions. She broke up with you because she no longer wanted to be your girlfriend anymore. Teen feelings change from day to day, month to month...who can keep up with them.
Kids should play childrens games, not GROWN up games. Adult situations come with adult consequences!
YOUR ONLY 14 years OLD. Dont you have kid things to do?
Oviously Daddy didnt teach his boys how to respect woman!!!
So how old are you?
If he really cared about you, he would be looking out for your best interest, and that is choosing NOT to have sex because you are SO young. Just because you "love" someone, doesnt mean you have sex with them. Love does NOT equal sex. This boy is TOO o...
Like what are the things she says to make you think she likes you?
How about just holding hands like 13 yr olds should ONLY be doing! You are too young to be getting THAT physical. Next month your going to be asking how to have sex!
Then you need to tell him your boundaries, and stick to them!
It means she is NOT 100% ready! It means you should WAIT!
If you dont like it, then stop doing it! You cant MAKE your girlfriend do anything she doesnt want to do!
You want to be with someone who took your virginity then completely stopped talking to you for a year and a half, now out of the blue he starts talking to you again? He doesnt want to be with you, hes looking for EASY a$$ again. Unless you are desperat...
Why did the relationship end in the first place??
Please get better educated before you start getting sexual. Learn how the reproduction system works so you dont end up being teen parents.
Your only 14. At this age you cant get so serious with a boy, because most likely there will be others. You dont need to listen to your friends because if you two cant even communicate then you dont have much of a relationship.
If you couldnt work things out then without the relationship ending, what makes you think the second time is going to be any better? Missing someone doesnt necessarily mean he was They are the One. Getting back together with an ex is generally not a wi...
How can you think hes hurt when hes the one who broke up out of nowhere, and has never tried to contact you since? These feelings you are having are just your feelings. You cant get over him because you arent even trying. You need to STOP constantly th...
I dont think you are being honest about his age!
You JUST posted this 7 hrs ago>>**My boyfriend has stopped talking/hanging out with me. =*( I don't know why. What can I say/do to make him want to be around me?**>>Talking dirty isnt going to keep him around Hun! Dirty talk is very trashy and stupid...
Why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesnt want to be with you?
Sorry Hun, but you dont have to end a relationship to get prepared for highschool! Thats just HIS excuse. He wants to see what else is out there.
You have loved a girl for 6 years? Um...your ONLY 13. I highly doubt you know what love is at age 7 let alone 13, and as far as this girl dating for 6 years without ever being kissed...that is a VERY hard pill to swallow!!
Sorry, but thats how teenage feelings go...from one person to another. Next week she'll find someone else!
THen ask yourself WHY your still not together!
Scared? I'd be MORE concerned with my self respect. You have ONLY been together for 2 weeks, and hes already trying stuff on you. He obviously does not respect you. These are the kinds of things that young dating teens shouldnt have to worry about. You...
This relationship is based on sex...Is that all you two have in common? Try not having sex for a week and see if you two have what it takes to make a relationship last!
How about learning the MORE important aspects to a relationship instead of the physical! A relationship isnt all about sex you know!!!
You said he was 18!
Thats a HUGE red flag indicating you have emotional intimacy-connection issues. **Also if I was your boyfriend and if I asked you to have a threesome whow would you react??**>>I would seriously think twice about not having you as my boyfriend.
Of course your 13 yr old boyfriend is going to ask you to give him pleasure. Thats what horny teen boys do, but it doesnt mean that you have to do it! You are still very young. 13 yr olds shouldnt even be dating, let alone having oral! Next week hes go...
You cant make her love you, or stop her from ever dumping you because you both are so young. Trust me, she isnt going to be your last girlfriend.
Hun, you really need to get over him. You two were apart more than you were together, doesnt that tell you you just arent right for one another? Move on, and just be done with him already.
** l8r on that night he sed he had feelings still 4 a girl he went out with ages ago but she dosen like ?**>>Sounds like a boy who will like someone just for the sake of liking them. I wouldnt take what he says SO seriously.
You should NEVER date a best friends ex...that is one of the Cardinal Rules of dating!! 1 MONTH AGO YOU POSTED THIS>>**Im dating my best friends ex boyfriend. She told me I could, she told me I should. So I am, now shes telling me I shouldnt be...