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"people stiill do it anyway?? " People do other things that are illegal every day, like rape and murder, but (I hope) you do not wish for those things to be legalized. Just because other people do it does not make it a good idea. I do not smoke anythi...
Amiclubwear is where I get all my shoes. They are also on ebay under the name amistyle I think.
Liberty is from AZ (where Sen. Mc Cain is from) :P. Most polls (surveys) show that Obama will win, some show that Mc Cain is. We will not know until (hopefully) 8 pm pst (California time) on Tuesday. By the way, California only has 55 electoral votes, ...
No, I will not be voting in favor of proposition 8. I do not believe that ANYONE should be dissallowed to marry, just because they wish to marry an adult of the same gender. Discrimination should not be tolerated in this country.
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The average size in America is 14/15, so I would say you are doing pretty good.
get him a cool shirt or a watch
yes, you are very pretty. I would give you a 9.5 out of 10.
Id say do it, esp if your own parents dont want you to have the baby. They just need to give guardianship of you to your bfs parents. That way, you can still go to school and keep the baby.
romeo and juliet
Just buy some dye and do it. Try doing it at a friends house, cause after you have the dye in your hair, what can your parents do?
no, you have every right to be upset, but it is better to tell him that you are upset and explain why, because unless he is a mind reader, he has no way of knowing that you are upset at him. next time, just try to start turning him on again a few m...
try excercising, like kick boxing or running, that really helps me with a lot of things.
its probably just pms.
protection dosent always help, and you can, but it is not likely that you will.
thats normal, those were blood clots. It is highly unlikely that you are pregnant, around 99.999% chance that you are not pregnant.
yes, the boys will grow, but you may always be taller than most of them anyway.
The best thing for you and the baby would be to give them up for adoption. It would be the most difficult thing to do in your entire life, because you will love the baby so much, but that way you would be able to go to school still and not have to take...
It means exactly that: that she wants to find out more about you, because you act dfferently around your friends then you would a girlfriend. You tend to act nicer and more respectable around someone you are dating, but she wants to see the real you.
Women have a lot harder time with a guyfriend they like going out with another girlfriend, so it will probably not have any affect on their relationship.
there is no correct size, as everyones body is different.
yes, it is very normal.
break up with him. If you dont want to be with him, just get it done once and for all, otherwise you will just be hurting yourself and also leading him on. If he doesnt leave you alone, you can always get a restraining order.
practice using the muscles that are in your vagina, by squeezing them together, excercisng them several times a day.
Just think how you would feel if it was you with the husband that had a relationship. Plus, even if he did leave his wife, he will eventually do the same thing to you, even if he says he won't and all that bullsh*t. The best thing for you to do would b...
just because you get pregnant dosent make you a slut. I bet there are plenty of girls your age why sleep with lots of people, but they just dont get pregnant.
with your mouth. After the talking to him the first time, it usually gets easier.
I wouldnt ever go to a quack, because they just make things worse. If you really feel bad, try doing excersize. That helps me a lot. If you really want to see a therapist, you have to pay a lot, but your parents do not have to know about it.
the habanero, as far as I know. It is small and orange.
It hurts like hell! I have only done it once, and I will never do it again.
i did. I left home when I was 15, almost 16. Esp. in san francisco where I live, the police pretty much leave the people who arnt doing anything suspicious, because it IS illegal for you to leave home b4 18, but its not enforced
yes, it is your body's own way to clean itself. Especially after your period, it just gets all that stuff out.
I usually shop at Safeway or Cala Food, because they have club cards, but I see people come in that buy $50 worth of groceries and pay $0.65 for everything, but i dont have the time and I also dont get the local paper (san francisco Cronicle) as I dont...
it dosent matter if he is the nicest person in the world, after a child is 14, at least in cali, they have the right not to see whichever parent they choose.
catch his eye and smile at him, or touch him in some small way, like on his sholder.
I am not saying not to give it a chance, exactly the opposite, i am saying thst you should. Just tell the guy what is going on in your head and tell him your concerns.
it can be painful. it was not that painful for me, but just do it solwly the first time, then wait a few days to do it again, and use condoms both times.
i want you to read this very carefully: YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE THAN THAT, JUST THINK ABOUT HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU WOULD HURT BESIDES YOUR SELF. YOU BEING IN THE HOSPITAL WILL NOT MAKE HER CARE ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN SHE DOES NOW. If you are not sure ...
Just think about how you would feel if it was the other way around. Plus, unless you guys plan to get married soon, I wouldnt worry about it too much. Just meet his son and see what you think of him. Plan things that include his son too, that way you g...
It may be quick, but it might also take all day. I had my baby naturally, so I dont really know how long it takes for the cut on a ceserean to heal. Congratulations!!:)
you wouldnt know that quickly if you were pregnant, even if you took a pregnancy test. It may just be excess blood that didnt come out b4.
if you report it to the police, they have to do something about it. just tell her that it will only get worse and that if he really loved her, he wouldn't touch her in that way. I dont know if it will help her any, but you can rent Enough with jennifer...
you can tell her, but she will probably choose to not believe you. Also, discuss these things with her that bother you about him. In the end, you may not like it, but she is really the only one who can make her own decisions. Im sorry, but that it t...
it is possible, but not likley
You may know that you've changed, but it may be a little more difficult for him to belive it, not because he dosen't trust you, but because the things that you were doing are very addictive and it is not easy not to go back to those things. Just show h...
There are many things that could have happened, such as this Aj forgeting to call you, your friend forgot to give him the number, and embarassed, lied to you, or, even worse, the other guy just decided not to call you. You can always ask Joe for Aj's n...
everyone in your life will let you down at some time or other, just as you will probably let them down too. I hope this helps you.
no, you can only get pregnant if you have had s*x.
it depends on how many days are in your cycle. It is usually around the 14th day after your period ends if your cycle is 28 days long.
its not my job to tell a teenager to not have s*x at 14 since I started having s*x at 16, plus I think most people probably would rather the person in question protect themselves gainst stds and prevent pregnancy, because its more likely that the teen...