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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
an0m1n0s's Advice
Yes, people can be broken, and if it happens to a fighter, it can be a long ugly process. But, I've heard it said that it's better to have lived, and died, than to have never lived at all. I am a broken man, but there is still something to be had in th...
HI everyone. I'm surprised people are still following this. I thought I'd post a little update. Since I originally posted here things have changed a bit, but I'm not sure that I've gone either forward or backward. I've been getting unjustly impriso...
You look pretty cute to me.
I agree
vamparella, Since you criticized this girl's spelling, I'd like to point out that you consistently use the word "your" when you should use "you're" or "you are". You have ommited necessary commas and periods, and you have written many incomplete or...
at your age it's normal. I'm not sure what it is exactly, but it has something to do with the tissues in your body stretching and growing. I don't think what you're feeing is the same as your mother's, though I'm sure they both hurt a LOT. I still get ...
In my opinion, life is a challenge no matter what age you are. Waiting until later to marry and have children does not make anything easier, in fact I believe it actually makes things more difficult the longer you delay it. When women have their child...
increase your calorie intake, increase your activity
Your friend probably needs to get a new doctor. Enough said.
You are not lesbian or bisexual. You are suffering from mild mental illness due to the loss of your boyfriend. I recommend you speak to a counselor before your condition worsens.
It sounds like chlamydia or some other sexually transmitted disease. You need to see a doctor IMMEDIATELY because it can probably be cured with antibiotics, and it's doing severe damage to your body right now. Some diseases will ruin your liver, or you...
It seems like I answer questions like this twice a week. You're not too skinny. I know girls your height that are athletic and healthy beach godesses, and they only weigh about 70 pounds. If people are telling you things about your weight, it's because...
Marijuana (and similar plants) was originally made illegal in the USA when the government was looknig for ways to harrass poor Chinese immigrants working in California. The Chinese smoked marijuana, and the rest of californians did not, so they made th...
If you are married, then yes, I think in most parts of the world that restrict the rights of young women, the government will give you your freedom once you are married.
"teenage fun years" is another way of saying "stupidity". You're a mature adult and you're not missing out on anything. All those people out "having fun" are the people who tend end up old, alone, and with sexually transmitted diseases. The smart ones ...
I know the answer to this one. Her boyfriend was "testing the waters". He was being as sappy and romantic as he could to try to see how it felt for him. Your cousin obviously enjoyed it immensely, but for him it seems it probably felt a little holl...
Oh no! I just found this question. I've been following your questions like a cupid on the prowl with a few extra arrows. Please keep e updated, I soooo want you to be happy with your boyfriend/husband. I have had similar problems in my life. My girl...
I'm guessing your American, or maybe British. For some reason, those people in those countries are obsessed with age. It's probably because of the funny laws against marriage there. Age has nothing to do with anything, and in fact, the larger the age d...
It sounds like fear of commitment to me. How has it turned out so far? I REALLY love to see people happily married, not everyone is so lucky, and it'd be sooo sad if you got so close, only to have it suddenly snatched away.
If you feel like you need to do something, you better do it, or you may regret it the rest of your life. Even if it doesn't work out, at least you will be satisfied that you did what you had to do, and you will never wonder what would have happened.
I've known all kinds of girls, with all kinds of looks. I've seen one guy think a girl is ugly, and another guy fall head-ove-heals in love with her. I've often said that the only difference between an average girl and a gorgeous bombshell is a little ...
To make curly hair less curly, you have to "unflatten it" with heat and humidity. I'm not a hair stylist, I'm just talking about physics. I suggest going to a real stylist and asking about it. There may be hair products that can do it for you. Also, I'...
Hair does not stop growing when it reaches a certain length. Your hair falls out at a certain rate, and it grows at a certain rate. When the rates equal each other, your hair stops getting longer. For example, if it takes 4 years on average for each...
I agree, your situation isn't hopeless, but it isn't rosy either. It sounds like there's several options open to you that you should start making phone calls about.
I forgot to mention that if somehow you can afford to get an attorney, you may be able to keep your home in a bankruptcy. Look in the phonebook for bankruptcy attorneys, most of them will speak with you for free before you hire them.
It looks like you're headed for a lifestyle change. Obviously you cannot afford your home, and you are facing the possibility of losing it. I'm a guessing you are elderly or disabled if you live on social security. I don't know how you got into debt in...
Anorexia isn't being skinny. Anorexia is a psychological problem that leads to so little food intake that it threatens your health. Wanting to be skinny, and excercising and dieting to achieve it, does not by itself mean you are anorexic. When you ...
Yes, you are right. Your foreskin should be able to roll back away from the head of your penis without hurting. If it doesn't do that, your doctor will be able to tell you what to do, talk to a doctor about it. You should get it taken care of with your...
You're and adult and tensions between young adults and their parents is part of the normal process of seperating from them. The problems with your mom are an indication that it's time for you to make your own life, away from your parents.
I have no idea what you're talking about. Could you please explain? I suspect you're talking about circumcision, and if that's the case, you are fine, there's nothing to worry about, don't cut any parts off of your body, they are there for a reason.
If you're in the USA, or a country similar to the USA, it'll probably make life hard for you forever. Read my other response about a person who stole something 24 years ago: http://www.funadvice.com/?xq=4792 You can try to get your criminal recor...
How are things working out for you so far? It's been about a month since you asked for advice. Any news on how well it's worked out?
It's strange, but men are lone wolves in a way, they come and go mysteriously. But, like a loyal puppy, sometimes all you have to is tell them to come back to you, and they will.
I need to add that I sympathize with your situation. You're not her real mother, and she knows this and is exploiting it. You need "a free hand" from your husband in disciplining his daughter. She will fight against you by saying you're more harsh with...
You have to be firm and fair. If the child has legitimate complaints, address them. If the child does not have legitimate complaints, punish her for misbehaving. Children misbehave (they're children), and they need to be punished or they'll grow up lik...
polite compliments are the best and safest way to say "come hither, you sexy stud!". Start by noticing his clothes or some other feature (eyes?) that you like about him. Just be polite and friendly, it never hurts because everyone loves compliments.
After a while the stretch marks won't be quite so noticable, especially if she's fitness-concious. They'll never go away completely, but don't worry about them too much, they're scars just like any other and they will fade with time.
It's a federal crime to steal mail. Report it to the postal service AND the local police. The faster you file the reports, more likely it is that you'll get your mail back. Make sure you don't like your family before you do that though, because they ma...
Imprisonment has become a way of life in many countries (USA, UK, etc). I'm not sure which country you're from, but I would bet that even if your son did something wrong, he should not be in jail. Imprisonment increases criminal behavior dramatically, ...
I have had good luck getting ideas from www.livebusinesschat.com but you'll probably have to say something more than just "I need money", since that fact alone will do nothing to help you get it. Of course, the surest way is to get another job, regardl...
Old-fashioned, heavy-but-fatherly discipline is the proper way to deal with such an out of control situation. Unfortunately, it's probably illegal in the country where you live (along with flogging, which is harsh but effective), so I'm not sure there'...
THis is the classic example of how anti-marriage laws and stupid taboos can ruin lives. If you had been legally able to marry from the beginning, then none of this would have happened. Chances are that neither of you are going to be happy from here for...
OK, I'm going to take a stab at answering this, but bear with me, I'm going to make a lot of assumptions that may be wrong. If you regret becoming a mother because it's ruined your fun, that's bad, because it means you're selfish. I'm guessing you'r...
What do you mean by saying you have kids "already"? Also, are you married?
I'm doing a bit better now, since I wrote that, especially financially. I'm extremely talented with finances, and I was never really worried about that in the long term, even though being in bad physical shape would make homelessness much scarier tha...
Out with the old, in with the new. Your parents are aging and they are jealous of your youth. I've seen it a thousand times. Don't bring the law into it, your dad isn't THAT bad, but you don't have to take it. Leave them behind. I've read your other co...
You're not too young. Contrary to popular belief, married students get better grades, and are more likely to finish their educations than single students. You don't need your parents to finish college, or for anything else. Their silly manipulation of ...
Teen pregnancy was not a problem until marriage was outlawed for people under the age of 18 in the 1970's. Countries where marriage is legal don't have the same "problem", even though girls still get pregnant, like always. Most girls become sexually ac...
continuous rapid finger motion in difficult directions is the problem. Get a Dvorak keyboard from www.typematrix.com and also try dragon naturally speaking for writing emails. The Dvorak keyboard will reduce finger motions necessary for typing by over ...
If you love her, you have to respect her wishes. That said, she may be frustrated with you and all your "creeping" since you haven't done anything else. For starters, tell her how you REALLY feel. And don't be a wimp about it, you'll probably screw it ...