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alysher's Advice
Sorry about the repost!
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Start gently, and ask her along the way. We don't know what she likes. Only she does. As for oral sex...you could read up on some of this to help you out. http://www.sexinfo101.com/oralsex.shtml
Listen to your head here. Getting over someone is difficult, because you're in the habit of seeing them, talking to them on the phone, kissing them, etc, and you miss it, but it is possible to let it go and move on. Stay strong and don't call him, i...
Well there's no guarantee on anything to make you grow taller, but you can prevent stunting your growth by avoiding habitual drinking of coffee or pop that has caffeine, and especially avoid smoking. Those will stunt your growth for sure! If you're onl...
I couldn't wear a tampon until after the first time I had sex. My hymen prevented me from getting it in properly, and it also hurt very badly. A lot of girls do have problems with it, though.
Drink LOTS of water and stay very well hydrated, I get migraines if I get dehydrated. Sleep patterns and diet as well. Are you on your feet all day at work? Comfortable shoes can help a lot with headaches. Any trouble with your jaw when you eat? Clicki...
I had that problem, I would be sitting in class freezing my butt off, but I'd be sweating. There are prescription antiperspirants, but it will reallly only go away for good when you're older.
Was she on the pill before? Sometimes when a girl stops taking the pill it can take up to a year before she can get pregnant. Just a thought.
You can't really force chemistry, but it could take a little longer than others. Some people have it right away, and some people need to realize it down the road. Try not to rush anything and just keep hanging out, no pressure. Just have some fun and b...
Break up with him. If you don't want to be with him, it's not fair to either of you to stay just so no one else can have him.
You don't have to shave completely, but you could trim it, that would be considerate. The area can get very irritated and itchy with constant shaving.
What's she going to test it for? DNA? No doctor will test it unless it is evidence in a crime. And anyway, unless your DNA is on file, they'd have nothing to compare it to, and unless your girlfriend says it was rape, they legally can't test you for an...
It differs between guys. They all have different preferences. My boyfriend loves my body, even though I have a few extra pounds and I don't really like my bum. But I know there are guys out there who like slim girls too. It really is different for ever...
When a person is 'horny' it means they aroused or turned on sexually. An orgasm is usually when someone is either masturbating or having sex with someone, they achieve a release of built up sexual tension. A lot of things happen during an orgasm and...
Your breasts are sore because you're a teenager and your hormones are in a constant state of flux. You're growing and changing and you will be sore. The white stuff could be 'sebum' which is produced by your vulva and protects your body. It's not a ...
Your vagina might have a musky smell to it, especially when you're aroused, but that's completely normal. The 'fishy' smell is not. It is usually caused by a bacterial infection. I would go see a doctor. Before you run off thinking you've got someth...
If he's treated you badly in the past, I wouldn't give him another chance. There are PLENTY of other nice guys out there who treat girls well and who haven't been to juvie. If you're doubting and unsure, don't do it. You'll probably end up regrettin...
Teenage guys can be losers like that, but seriously, it's just a lollipop. Tell him you forgive him and not to be a jerk about things in the future. Boys pick on girls when they like them, haha, maybe he has a crush. Don't take my word for it though...
It's easier to feel like you're getting over someone when there's a new guy in the picture. Are you sure you're ready for a relationship so soon? A week seems like such a short time for a seven-month long relationship. Don't rush into anything un...
Who says you're going to lose one or the other? Girls send mixed signals ALL the time. Sometimes, if they like a guy, they'll also try to keep is cool if they're not sure how he feels. So she might flirt one day and then be buddy-buddy the next day ...
I had a good friend in high school like that. Everyone thought we were dating because we hung out all the time! Eventually I realized I like him and I asked him out. We dated for a month or so, then I realized he was more like my brother, lol! We broke...
Rule 1: No teeth unless he says he likes that. Some guys love it, some guys REALLY don't. Best to ask first. Rule 2: Lots of saliva. The more spit, the better for you both. Feels good for him and it's easier for you to have smooth motions and it won...
So they're best friends half of the time? That's not cool. Best friends would ditch Adam when he acts the way he does towards you. I still suggest branching out a bit. They found a new friend, why can't you? Ask them to eat lunch with you and your f...
TV and music are like that because, yes, sex sells. Sex is fun and sexy and people like seeing it and listening to people talk about it, especially if they aren't getting it, lol! Most teenage boys are very hormonal, as we all are during those years...
I had so many ups and downs with my fickle friends in high school, so I hear you loud and clear. I called myself a 'hanger' friend. Someone who my "friends" stored on a hanger, like a winter coat, until they felt they needed me. I was sick of it becaus...
Is he just 'this guy' or is he your boyfriend that you love and trust? So many girls I know have had horrible experiences with guys they didn't have a strong bond with and they've all said they wished they waited for someone else. I waited for my fi...
I would tell them. I've always been honest with my parents, and they appreciate that more than finding out secrets elsewhere. You'll build trust with them, and even though they may not approve, it's YOUR life. If you start keeping secrets from your ...
Your anxiety might be the problem. if you put too much pressure on yourself, you're going to psyche yourself out completely. Prostitutes are not the way to go. Your first time will be best with someone you love and care about where the trust is stro...
"guys love it when you moan or say their name during it" This is true, but the first time I moaned my boyfriend's name, he stopped because he thought he did something wrong or something I didn't like, haha! Just an amusing side note...anyways, I digres...