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If you are scared of losing your virginity, then don't. It's absolutely totally your choice, and, later in life, if you find a guy who really loves you, he's honestly not going to care whether you're a virgin or not. I know tons of people who lose th...
I wouldn't call it discrimination. I think they're just going a little too far with their homosexual theme.
I know EXACTLY how you feel. When I got my period at 14 I hid it from my mom, and I spent hours agonizing over whether to tell her or not. Eventually she found out, but I had already had it 4 times. I was really embarassed when she told me she knew, bu...
You know what? My two best friends didn't get theirs until they were 16 and 15. All girls develop at different paces - it's completely natural. Anyway, periods suck. Mine were really heavy all through highschool - I'd go through a super tampon in abou...
It's natural for your kid to prefer you at that age. My littlest sister would scream if my Mom left the room, and barely acknowledge my Dad when he tried to pick her up and comfort her. It's not that he doesn't like his Dad, it's that he likes you more...
It is never a good idea to snoop. If she catches you, which is very possible, it will show your daughter you don't trust her and this will just make her rebel. Honesty is always the best way. Sit your daughter down and tell her you want to know if she'...
If your boyfriend is not ready for it, I don't think you should do it, as you'll be pressuring him into it and he'll end up resenting you for it. If you just wait the few years until he's ready, it will be so much better for both of you. He sounds like...
You are only thirteen, and I think a baby would be a lot better off with a 20-year-old mother, at least. It's great that you have such an awesome boyfriend! Lucky you! Incidentally, people don't believe you're a virgin? You're 13! It's normal!
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I love he-LAY-nuh. It's one of my all-time favourite names.
That's fairly skinny, but it could just be genetics. If you just keep eating enough to satisfy you, you're good!
I think it's great that you have such a motherhood instinct at such an early age. I do, however, think you should absolutely wait until you are older for that responsibility. Here are the reasons for doing so: a) 14-year-olds are not fully developed...
I think it would be a lot better if you could find a way of getting him to talk about it - instead of hacking. If he gets defensive, it may be because you need to reword your question. Tell him you trust him, but you want reassurance that you're still ...
Listen honey, virginity is a sacred thing that should not be thrown away like garbage. Nor should your first kiss go to any old guy, just so you can have some street cred. You're 15. You've got decades ahead of you in which to find a life partner. And ...
I'd say you are slightly underweight, not anorexic, though it could easily go there if you try to lose more weight. You're short, like me, and I was a hundred pounds at 14, and I was never called fat. Right now, I'm 142 pounds and that's right around t...
I don't think you're anorexic. Anorexia is a mental illness, albeit one that projects onto your body very directly. It's an addiction to lack of food, or an addiction to weight loss. You may have weight loss tendencies, but it's the frame of mind that...
If you want to be a serious pianist, you should definitely get a teacher. If you can't afford it, or don't have the time or just don't want the responsibility, get a beginning piano book - there's lots out there. They teach you how to read, and basic t...
There's quite a few - classical music has been around for centuries - a lot longer than golf. The ones I can name off the top of my head that have lots of fame and acclaim are: Bach Mozart Beethoven Schubert Brahms
Humans have been making music since their brains were big enough for it - with voice, drums, flutes and other primitive instruments. The way the actual style of classical music came about was pure chance - some guy put together some notes, they sounded...
If you don't want to have s*x, you definitely shouldn't, especially since it goes against your beliefs. It's like asking "should I marry a guy I hate?" The answer is obvious. If he's going to dump you over s*x, it's because he only wants you for the s*...