Can my boyfriend find out if I have an abortion?
this is a complecated situation , well talk about it with your boyfriend and his family saying that this will not be the best life for the child to be brought in , you need to know that you are ok finaclay and all that tbh. but abortion its a decsion t...
How do I control myself?
well i have that same problem at times but now i just look at the food and think of how much crap and kcal are in it and i just dont want it.
if u feel hungary try drinking lots of water this fills u up for a while ok!!! and just stay out of the way o...
How to get rid of scars?(0.00%)
hey I cut to , I dont think there is a way I've tried a few things that are surposed to work but it just dont ,but the scars will fade slighty as the skin sheds over the years but they will never go away unforunalty
but well dont for stopping good for...
Should I let my Mom divorce my Dad?
well you could tell him that your are mad at him i guess but only you can decided that no onw else can for you im afraid!!! but if your parents divorce theres nothing you can do to stop it, ive been there, its hard but just be there for you mother she ...
How can I tell my boyfriend to back off about sex?
im guna be blunt ok this is not nesarly what all guys do , but most will tell u that they love u and u are the everything when they want something , there are some genral guys who mean that sort of thing but most dont unfortunalty!!! and if u dont thin...
How can I stop thinking about suicide?
hey i got the same problem , ive atempeted it a fair few times and beileve me its not nice , one it does hurt and two its ur family that will hurt the most. and also if u attempt it u see were u have gone worng and u just get better at it thats whats h...
How can you tell when someone hates you ?
well how do u thinks hates u what are they doing to u , and then from there ppl will be able to tell u if what there doing if through hate!!! trust me tho u just no if some one hates u , its more emotional than anything else u just feel it , but be car...
How do I stop my eating habits?
dont worry lots of ppl have that problem i used to but then just think of all the fat that is in that food and it really puts me off!!! just um try and drink lots of water adn this feels u up a lot and mayby when ever u feel like pigging out take a l...
Am I depressed?
hey there i am deppressed and i get scared a lot and all that, and i dont like myself, i have many other like symptoms tho!!! well if u are deppressed then mayby talking to someone will help, im not saying talk to a proffesional cus they do work for so...
What can I do if I have a winter birthday?
hey my bday is in jan as well i just usaully have mates round and play games such as twister ad we just make a fun eveing out of it!!! or last year i went bowling and the year befor a meal!!! theres stuff to do it just finding it lol!!!
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Where and how can I get a girlfriend?
well basically there is no reason why u cant get a gf , just be a bit more confindent around girls , it depends on what type of girl ur looking for as to were u will meet them , and were u meet the girl is where u start the converstaion, eg if u met a ...
Should I sleep with him if we're not together?
hey there, i dont think u shud i was in the same situation as u earlier this year, there was a really good mate of mine that went out with a girl and they ended up having sex and he really got to like her, when they broke up he came to me for comfort a...
Why am I 34 and still a virgin?
just put urself out there , theres no reason why u cant score with some girl, just mayby ind ur self a girlfriend tho dont just like use a girl!!!
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Why am I 34 and still a virgin?
just put urself out there , theres no reason why u cant score with some girl, just mayby ind ur self a girlfriend tho dont just like use a girl!!!
X
How can I tell my parents about my relationship with an older man?
hey there, its not our fault who we fall for but if he cheated on his wife then he will most liky chaet on u , when someone cheats once they will do it again and again, my mum did and shes done it at least 3 times that i know of .. but if you want to s...
Something wrong with wanting to be alone?
hey your not wierd ok i go through the same thing , i hate the company of others and i find any excuss to sit alone in my room away from everyone ., its nice, but yet again im goign throught deppression so i think it has something to do with that . but...
How can I trick my husband into getting me pregnant?
dont do that to ur husband theres obviolsy a reason why he is not ready for kids , mayby finacally and all that. my mum tricked my dad into it and he wasnt ready, he was to young and he wanted to wait until he got a family house together and to make su...
How do I know if my fish is pregnant?
well it all depends on what type of fish u have as some of them dont get pregnanat they just lay the eggs and then the male fertilises them outside of the body!!!, others can have the eggs inside of them in that case the fish might be bigger , but it a...
How much jail time for abortion?
i dont think it should be crime really cus its up to the women what she does with the unborn , buts its also the mens thought so has anyone thought about making it a crime for knocking these women up as it takes 2 to creat a life it shouldnt all be dow...
where was shakespear born?
hey, im pretty sure that shakespear was born in bradford on avon, well i no he at least lived there at some stage lol!!!
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Do tattoos hurt?
it depends on differnt people, it basically depends on how much pain u can take!! my mate has had some nad she sed that on her anckle it hurt a fair bit cus its on the bone and on her back the outline hurts but the colouring did not , but she cant stan...
What is a friend?
everyone think of a friend in a differnt way , but the way i see it is that a friend love you for u, loves everything about you, you can trust them, they can make u smile even through the toughest times and is always there for u!!they may not always no...
Can I move out at 14 or 15 years old ?
umm yeah no what u mean there im 17 and i cant move out or another year cus u usaully have to be 18 to move out with out your parents consent , but befor that you need your parents consent and this is usually 16!! just with things at home i no at tim...
Is there another way to lose weight?
yeah there is but it can take a long time but it shouldnt make u feeli like you do , bassically eat healthy, dont skip meals and exerices everyday. when eating eat in small amounts and eat things such as fruit , just stay away from chocolate and anyth...
Where can I workout?
hey there i know what thats like, but ive just started going to the gym and what i do is that i take my MP3 and just listen to that and do my own thing, nobody around you will notice you at a gym there all to interested in what there doing!! and for jo...
How do I get thicker?
what do u mean by thicker, do u mean fatter or as in gettign urselff like dumb, if ur more precise with ur answer then somebody might be able to keep u out?
take care X
How can I get my parents to treat me like an adult?
hey there i no what u are going through and it sucks!! i have the same problem and it can be so iratable and it always seem to end in the arguament and the parents being right!! the best thing to do that i find is jsut to agree with your parents and af...
What if I don't know anyone at my new middle school?
well of course you are scared , thats natural and i spect that there are many other people that are in the same situation as you. when you first get there , go and sit next to anyone , and hopefully through class activities you will make friends natura...
What are some things to do when I'm bored?
hey there,
well it all depends what kinda person u are, if your srtistic then paint or make something!! if ur a sproty person then go for run, just figure out what kinda person u are and go from there!!or u can just sit there and daydream lol it pas...
How do I get drugs or cigarettes?(0.00%)
well it depends on what u want but u just need to no the right people college or school is the best place to find people i kno loads of people from college that can get there hands on all sorts of stuff!! and for cigarettes either get a fake id or get ...
Am I wrong or her?
if u got kids and then u meet someone they shud be prepared for the whole package , what ever u do is dont out her in frount of ur kids it would be the biggest mistake of ur life!! but if u like this person tell her nad say what is her problem ,it migh...
How to influence kids?
im just a kid myself really but kids need surport, if they get positive surport then they are more likly to do good things as if u dont give them that good surport then they ned then they might rebel!! also the parent settign a good example is a good w...
How can I make my boobs bigger?
ur boobs will get bigger as u get older its just that sometime u have to wait, im only 34C and im 17 and my sis is 15 and 36C , its just the way that are bodies are built , u still got a few more years to grow yet so just wait and see!! but i cant thin...
What if I'm embarrassed of my family?
wow yeah sounds like u dont live in a invite ur mates round place!! but if u have ur own room there , u can have ur mates in there cant u? it might not be the most ideal place to have ur mates but yeah umm..i feel sorry for ya , but at least u got fami...
Can some foods help me throw up easier?(0.00%)
trying to make urself throw up is not at all good for your body , firstly your baody will not get the nutrients from the food and you will become weak , and also your food pipe will get damaged and eventully will become really hard to swollow because i...
How do I fix dry, cracked feet?
umm, what about using just plain mosturiser, but not the scented stuff but plain natural stuff, E45 is good for crack skin as it softens the skin!!and also perharps dont wear socks all the time just let ur feet breath when ur inside!!
i hope i have h...
How can you tell if a guy likes you?
thanks for the advice everyone , i will look for the signs and if not then ill just bluntly ask him if i get the confindence lol!!
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How can I lose some weight?(100.00%)
im in the same boat as u , i wana lose weight but i find that a good way to do it and to do it in a safe way is to just drink water as this has no calories in it, where as fizzy drinks, fruit drinks and drinks such as tea do , also water will keep u ni...
How do you deal with annoying friends?
ive had this problem and i just put up with it and just went really quite, but htis put my confindence down!!but i relised that people who just talk about them selves just have nothing else better to do , umm its difficult to stick things like this out...
How can I get my best friends back?
well mayby you could talk to your friends and talk the whole thing through. and if it is possible talk to ur parents about it and get them to appoligise to ur mates , i know that may not be possible as parents , well u knwo what there like on things li...
How can I be like Cady in Mean Girls?(0.00%)
real life is not like the movies. im guessing that your still in school were you see that there are the 'popular people' and the 'average type people' , its not like that you will see when you leave school!!but for now you dont need to be stilish and a...
How can I fix these relationships?(100.00%)
hey there , im in the same boat as you i dont get on with my mum at all, in fact i ahvent seen her in 4 years becasue we argued a lot and in the end she said that she didnt want to see me any more. because of that i started to self harm and that over t...
How can I stop suffocating in my family?
i know what u are feeling i have family members like that . heck becasue of some of my family memebers ive tried commiting suicide, but dont listen to your family is they say ur bad luck then just ignor it , its really hard to do i know but in the end ...
How do I stop cutting when I've been doing it forever?(100.00%)
cutting is one of the hardest things to stop, ive been doing it for a good 4 years and the most ive gone is 8 weeks without cutting , but now im back to doing it everyday. ways which i got told to stop are the ice cube trick , which i know for a lot of...
alostandbrokenmind's Advice
this is a complecated situation , well talk about it with your boyfriend and his family saying that this will not be the best life for the child to be brought in , you need to know that you are ok finaclay and all that tbh. but abortion its a decsion t...
well i have that same problem at times but now i just look at the food and think of how much crap and kcal are in it and i just dont want it. if u feel hungary try drinking lots of water this fills u up for a while ok!!! and just stay out of the way o...
hey I cut to , I dont think there is a way I've tried a few things that are surposed to work but it just dont ,but the scars will fade slighty as the skin sheds over the years but they will never go away unforunalty but well dont for stopping good for...
well you could tell him that your are mad at him i guess but only you can decided that no onw else can for you im afraid!!! but if your parents divorce theres nothing you can do to stop it, ive been there, its hard but just be there for you mother she ...
im guna be blunt ok this is not nesarly what all guys do , but most will tell u that they love u and u are the everything when they want something , there are some genral guys who mean that sort of thing but most dont unfortunalty!!! and if u dont thin...
hey i got the same problem , ive atempeted it a fair few times and beileve me its not nice , one it does hurt and two its ur family that will hurt the most. and also if u attempt it u see were u have gone worng and u just get better at it thats whats h...
well how do u thinks hates u what are they doing to u , and then from there ppl will be able to tell u if what there doing if through hate!!! trust me tho u just no if some one hates u , its more emotional than anything else u just feel it , but be car...
dont worry lots of ppl have that problem i used to but then just think of all the fat that is in that food and it really puts me off!!! just um try and drink lots of water adn this feels u up a lot and mayby when ever u feel like pigging out take a l...
hey there i am deppressed and i get scared a lot and all that, and i dont like myself, i have many other like symptoms tho!!! well if u are deppressed then mayby talking to someone will help, im not saying talk to a proffesional cus they do work for so...
hey my bday is in jan as well i just usaully have mates round and play games such as twister ad we just make a fun eveing out of it!!! or last year i went bowling and the year befor a meal!!! theres stuff to do it just finding it lol!!! X
well basically there is no reason why u cant get a gf , just be a bit more confindent around girls , it depends on what type of girl ur looking for as to were u will meet them , and were u meet the girl is where u start the converstaion, eg if u met a ...
hey there, i dont think u shud i was in the same situation as u earlier this year, there was a really good mate of mine that went out with a girl and they ended up having sex and he really got to like her, when they broke up he came to me for comfort a...
just put urself out there , theres no reason why u cant score with some girl, just mayby ind ur self a girlfriend tho dont just like use a girl!!! X
just put urself out there , theres no reason why u cant score with some girl, just mayby ind ur self a girlfriend tho dont just like use a girl!!! X
yeah try 'HIM' there a great band!!!
hey there, its not our fault who we fall for but if he cheated on his wife then he will most liky chaet on u , when someone cheats once they will do it again and again, my mum did and shes done it at least 3 times that i know of .. but if you want to s...
hey your not wierd ok i go through the same thing , i hate the company of others and i find any excuss to sit alone in my room away from everyone ., its nice, but yet again im goign throught deppression so i think it has something to do with that . but...
dont do that to ur husband theres obviolsy a reason why he is not ready for kids , mayby finacally and all that. my mum tricked my dad into it and he wasnt ready, he was to young and he wanted to wait until he got a family house together and to make su...
well it all depends on what type of fish u have as some of them dont get pregnanat they just lay the eggs and then the male fertilises them outside of the body!!!, others can have the eggs inside of them in that case the fish might be bigger , but it a...
no compotion ,it has to be...books!!! X
i dont think it should be crime really cus its up to the women what she does with the unborn , buts its also the mens thought so has anyone thought about making it a crime for knocking these women up as it takes 2 to creat a life it shouldnt all be dow...
hey, im pretty sure that shakespear was born in bradford on avon, well i no he at least lived there at some stage lol!!! X
it depends on differnt people, it basically depends on how much pain u can take!! my mate has had some nad she sed that on her anckle it hurt a fair bit cus its on the bone and on her back the outline hurts but the colouring did not , but she cant stan...
everyone think of a friend in a differnt way , but the way i see it is that a friend love you for u, loves everything about you, you can trust them, they can make u smile even through the toughest times and is always there for u!!they may not always no...
umm yeah no what u mean there im 17 and i cant move out or another year cus u usaully have to be 18 to move out with out your parents consent , but befor that you need your parents consent and this is usually 16!! just with things at home i no at tim...
yeah there is but it can take a long time but it shouldnt make u feeli like you do , bassically eat healthy, dont skip meals and exerices everyday. when eating eat in small amounts and eat things such as fruit , just stay away from chocolate and anyth...
hey there i know what thats like, but ive just started going to the gym and what i do is that i take my MP3 and just listen to that and do my own thing, nobody around you will notice you at a gym there all to interested in what there doing!! and for jo...
what do u mean by thicker, do u mean fatter or as in gettign urselff like dumb, if ur more precise with ur answer then somebody might be able to keep u out? take care X
hey there i no what u are going through and it sucks!! i have the same problem and it can be so iratable and it always seem to end in the arguament and the parents being right!! the best thing to do that i find is jsut to agree with your parents and af...
well of course you are scared , thats natural and i spect that there are many other people that are in the same situation as you. when you first get there , go and sit next to anyone , and hopefully through class activities you will make friends natura...
hey there, well it all depends what kinda person u are, if your srtistic then paint or make something!! if ur a sproty person then go for run, just figure out what kinda person u are and go from there!!or u can just sit there and daydream lol it pas...
well it depends on what u want but u just need to no the right people college or school is the best place to find people i kno loads of people from college that can get there hands on all sorts of stuff!! and for cigarettes either get a fake id or get ...
if u got kids and then u meet someone they shud be prepared for the whole package , what ever u do is dont out her in frount of ur kids it would be the biggest mistake of ur life!! but if u like this person tell her nad say what is her problem ,it migh...
im just a kid myself really but kids need surport, if they get positive surport then they are more likly to do good things as if u dont give them that good surport then they ned then they might rebel!! also the parent settign a good example is a good w...
ur boobs will get bigger as u get older its just that sometime u have to wait, im only 34C and im 17 and my sis is 15 and 36C , its just the way that are bodies are built , u still got a few more years to grow yet so just wait and see!! but i cant thin...
wow yeah sounds like u dont live in a invite ur mates round place!! but if u have ur own room there , u can have ur mates in there cant u? it might not be the most ideal place to have ur mates but yeah umm..i feel sorry for ya , but at least u got fami...
trying to make urself throw up is not at all good for your body , firstly your baody will not get the nutrients from the food and you will become weak , and also your food pipe will get damaged and eventully will become really hard to swollow because i...
umm, what about using just plain mosturiser, but not the scented stuff but plain natural stuff, E45 is good for crack skin as it softens the skin!!and also perharps dont wear socks all the time just let ur feet breath when ur inside!! i hope i have h...
thanks for the advice everyone , i will look for the signs and if not then ill just bluntly ask him if i get the confindence lol!! X
im in the same boat as u , i wana lose weight but i find that a good way to do it and to do it in a safe way is to just drink water as this has no calories in it, where as fizzy drinks, fruit drinks and drinks such as tea do , also water will keep u ni...
ive had this problem and i just put up with it and just went really quite, but htis put my confindence down!!but i relised that people who just talk about them selves just have nothing else better to do , umm its difficult to stick things like this out...
well mayby you could talk to your friends and talk the whole thing through. and if it is possible talk to ur parents about it and get them to appoligise to ur mates , i know that may not be possible as parents , well u knwo what there like on things li...
real life is not like the movies. im guessing that your still in school were you see that there are the 'popular people' and the 'average type people' , its not like that you will see when you leave school!!but for now you dont need to be stilish and a...
hey there , im in the same boat as you i dont get on with my mum at all, in fact i ahvent seen her in 4 years becasue we argued a lot and in the end she said that she didnt want to see me any more. because of that i started to self harm and that over t...
i know what u are feeling i have family members like that . heck becasue of some of my family memebers ive tried commiting suicide, but dont listen to your family is they say ur bad luck then just ignor it , its really hard to do i know but in the end ...
cutting is one of the hardest things to stop, ive been doing it for a good 4 years and the most ive gone is 8 weeks without cutting , but now im back to doing it everyday. ways which i got told to stop are the ice cube trick , which i know for a lot of...