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Born and raised in La Jolla/San Diego, CA but moved to Anchorage, AK 44 years ago.
Currently a retired taxicab driver after 30 years.
Single. Divorced 3 times. Had 3 children (2 still living), have 7 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter.
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alexandrarz's Advice
You obviously dont work in a hospital, but if you ever do, I promise you'll think different.
try working in a hospital and seeing the dead, or the super natural. Just about all hospital personel have seen the super natural, because they're surrounded by death 24/7, and they're all believers. You get your proof through the dying.
My brother was the sam way. He started to take creatin mixed with protein, and that helped a lot. Its not that healthy but it works. He took it just to get him started then stopped after a few months. He hits the gym about 5 days a week and he's been d...
If your still in high school, then I don't think its a good idea. Its a lot of hard work. You have to contribute financially, so you have to find a decent job. Balancing a job with good hours and school is pretty tough. a lot of college students strugg...
I think it should be who ever's house is prefered. Or if you guys can afford it sell both and by bigger because there'll be combined income. But most girls go from moving in from home to the guys house, because most girls wont marry a guy thats not on ...
Yeah, I agree with sillygoose23. Your waaay too sexually active. You need to take it down a noch or two. He's right in not to trust you. And more than likely, he does'nt respect you, because if he did, he would trust you. Maybe you guys should break up...
you could love your material things. I absolutley love my 07 mustang, its my most prized posession. But I love my fiance even more and would give my car up in a heart beat for him.
NO. If he did, nothing you can do would make him look down on you (even bad grades). He would be your support system if he did.
I absolutly dissagree with "lovehurtsbabe". Yes every race is discriminated against, but nowhere near to the extent of a minority. You say you get treated horrible at school for your religion and for some war? Now times that by 10 and add 20 more reaso...
Theres nothing wrong with this. Your her mother before her friend. Rules and guide lines need to be set, and they should start at an early age. I'm 20 with no kids, but my mother was always super strict with me. She made it nown that she was my mother,...
I'm Puerto Rican and I've dealt with the exact same thing. NEVER retaliate back in the same manner. His ignorance is what makes you better than him, so dont level out the playing feild. You were absolutley right in adressing it. When you confront peopl...
Thats what I thought sikashimmer. Thanks. As for as being tested, My fiance is my first, and He's in the military so he's been tested every 6 months and he's clean. What kind of birth control pills is the most effect?
I'm not worried about stds. Hes my fiance. But I'm in college and a baby can slow that down.
Are you doing ab excercises. I dont know how a pregnant belly feels, but I use to have gallbladder problems and I was extremely bloated 24/7. My stomach was hard as a rock. People thought it was my stomach muscles, but not so much. lol. So you could be...
My fiance is in the military and our relationship has been more apart then together. We're crazy about each other. It is really hard at times, and at times you guys may think it just wont work, but you have to work through it if you guys think each oth...
Well I thought about the divorce thing too, but the way I think of it is that he's my first love and husband. And one day he'll be the father of my kids. Divorce or not, he'll always be apart of my life and a great chapter of it.
have any of you guys considered the military? Afer you get out the military, you can find a job anywhere. or you can make a career in it and retire with awesome pay and benefits after 20 years. They dont discriminate.
Theres two types of girls. The type that you love, respect, and marry, and the type that you disrespect, use and abuse. He's obviously found the marring type if he's engaged. Dont be the other type of girl because if he's not engaged to you, then thats...
yeah, sorry!
I did the opposite transition. Public to private. Public is more laid back but because of that, the kids tend to be a bit more wild. Specially the girls. Drama, drama. Plus in public kids dont take their acedemics as serious as kids in private because...
Yeah stop calling him. Wait for him to call. Maybe he has things to think about. Marriage is a huge deal. My boyfriend, when he has a lot to think about, he falls off the face of the earth for a couple days. Its really fustrating but I give him his spa...
Me and my boyfriend met on the internet on complete accident. We're getting married this summer. Neither one of us ever had any intentions of finding a relationship online. I've always disagreed with it. I still kinda do, but there are some special sit...
that doesnt sound right. You aged 7 years since the incident and he only aged 5 or 6?
Oh I ablolutley believe in it. The most real experiences are in hospitals. All hospital personel have experience something at one time. People start working in hospitals not believing in any of that stuff, but after a couple of years they do. My mother...
I agree. I'm in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend is in the military. There has to be total trust and determination. Plus I think if you guys truly love each it can work. But they are hard as hell.
I dont think its because your pregnant. But I could be wrong. When my friend was pregnant her breast didn't start to hurt until she was about 2 months. I don't know. You should try a pregnacy test anyways. If your not then You really should go to the d...
I dont see anything wrong with it but it is harder to maintain interracial relationships. The fact is different races are raised with different morals and values and beliefs. Those differences can cause strains on the relationship if both people stand ...
then prepare for some pain. lol. It really depends on you too. Some girls it doesnt really hurt others are in complete agony. My first didnt' hurt so much, but with my second and current boyfriend it killed. My boyfriend now is a lot bigger then my fir...
You dont have to be tall, just extremely thin, so that way you'll look tall in your pictures. But you'll never be able to do run way. I'm 5'3 and weigh a bit over 100 pounds and all the other females in my family are the same. I have a cousin who had a...
I'm catholic but dont totaly believe in the bible. I think its more for moral teachings then literal. Me and most of my family work in the hospital and thats when you'll really believe in God, devil, and angels. They say that people close to death are ...