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My first advice is always the same in this situation. @ 17 you really shouldn't be having any sex. No, there is nothing wrong with sex itself, but the consequences of pregnancy, disease, emotional devastation, are just too serious to be playing wit...
Remember that any sexual contact with a girl who is only 13 years old is a felony in every state in United States and, even if you are also a minor, you can, and most likely will, go to jail.
1 - Stop taking your bra off for anyone!!! 2 - Don't let him grab or grope or any of that shi*t 3 - When you turn 21, and need to worry about, go for the WaterBra, I think it's by VS. But stay away from the boys. If you are really only 14 (profil...
I think the best way to get out of a depression is to go and serve others. The animal shelter is a good idea, but stay for a while and help them out. Clean the cages, make copies, help with the animals. Call your local hospital and read to sick kids...
Most companies can't hire you under 16 unless you have a work permit from your parents (and sometimes the state) because of insurance reasons. Some good jobs have already been listed. I would add: Paper Route (Don't knock it) Cleaning Crew A...
Respect is a two-way street. If you expect your parents to respect your decision to become agnostic, then you need to respect their decision to follow their faith. If you attend church with them, treat their friends and minister with courtesy, an...
The key to long lasting happiness is to find a way to server other people. This could be tutoring younger students, helping at a senior center, or mowing lawns for disadvantaged adults. Happiness requires focusing on others instead of ourselves.
You've been having sex for 8 months. You "popped her cherry" months ago if you are using that as a "I'm still a virgin" excuse. Perhaps she was on her period and her arousal got things flowing, or perhaps got a slight injury if you skipped the forepl...
By publishing the cartoons the Danes are defending the bedrock principle of free speech. The Muslim world believes that they have the right to enforce their version of life on everyone around them by force. The Danes should be applauded for standing ...
TinaTodder is right. If you don't know the basics of getting pregnant you have NO BUSINESS getting knocked up. Is your boyfriend going to stick around and help you when you get fat, slow, and sick? Are you going to get a job and leave the baby behin...
She is a lot like Rocky. 1 - She is as ugly as it gets 2 - She has been beaten up by everyone she meets 3 - She is surrounded by idiots
Don't worry so much. Enjoy the erotic dreams, the guilt-free and spontaneous orgasms, and just roll with it. I also don't think you have to worry about your girlfriend noticing if you cum in your sleep unless you are sleeping naked. Just toss on...
Breathing Seeing a pretty girl in a tight shirt Seeing a pretty girl in a short skirt Seeing a pretty girl dressed in overalls, with dirty hair, mud on her face, and two missing teeth. Eating, sleeping, walking, talking, thinking, working, remember...
Everyone has made great points here. 1) Use good hygiene 2) Don't go from one spot to another without washing 3) Start off slow, use lots of lube, and stay in control Also; You might consider a butt plug instead of a vibrator at first. The co...
Most guys bug their ex-GFs until they find someone new. The best way, in my experience, is to ignore the person. They get a kick out of you giving them attention, even negative attention. Don't answer his phone calls, don't text, don't e-mai...
Letting the water from the bath faucet can be stimulating, water is actually a bad lubricant for sex. It washes away the slippery stuff that your body produces when you are sexually aroused. If you are new to masturbation, you'll have to try a co...
The next time you are together, and someone asks "Are you two a couple?", put your arm around her, look in to her eyes, and ask, "What do you think?" If she laughs and pulls away, or if she snuggles in closer, should give you the answer.