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ummm, if he loves you hell say it. its only been 9 months, what is your fing hurry? Jeez, if after 9 months my girlfriend said she loved me, Id be gone out the wall, bugs bunny style.
Kass has some good advice, follow that first. If that fails, ask yourself if you can be happy with both moms on your case forever or not seeing them. You are both jumping into a hornets nest: good luck.
This is the puppy love effect wearing off. This is where you find if it is love or not. Ask him where it is going and to stop sleeping at other womans houses. What would he do if you slept at a male friends house? Nothing=bad. Ditch him. Get conce...
If he ditches her, go for it. Otherwise youre being used. If you can deal with being the other woman and all the crap that goes along with that, then go get laid
Uh, you could come here to vent. Just a thought. I dunno, take up a cheap hobby, like walking or jogging in the mornings. Itll help you stay sane
9 times out of 10: hes a cheatnig bastard. 1 times out of 10: ?????? try to find the second one before the first. Explain to him why this bothers you (and dont do this when hes doing somethig hes really into, ie football game) and ask him to ex...
Ditch the dick, this is how abusive relationships start. Seriously, ask any woman at a womans shelter. You can spell, you seem decently intelligent (this is meant as a compliment), you are young. What the hell is the love thing? What makes peo...
IF you cant imagine your life without him, its not love. Its a crush. Its not about looking at each other, but together in the same direction. If youre continually breaking up and getting back together youre either too immature to have a real r...
Tell him what you told us, not the crying part, just the thinking about him a lot part. ANY guy loves hearing this. Just dont turn into a stalker
you have been married for 8 months, congradulations on that. Now the real relationship begins, you get past the lovey-dovey stuff and down to the point: can you work out your differences. If you need to talk about things, fine. But respect his space...
Use the key labelled .. It helps, seriously. Yeah, I think you got played, but if youre sleeping with him after 3 months, what did you expect? How old is he? If hes over 25 he played you. If hes under; hes just growing up yet. Expect this until you...
As a guy, yeah. BUT youd better be sure of how he feels. If youve been dating for less then 2 years, Id say youre gonna scare him off